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    Girlfriend Back from Vacation

    Hey all!

    So my girlfriend is back from a 9 day vacation in Puerto Rico with her best girlfriend. She's been contacting me everyday pretty much while there, and I mean like morning and night and stuff. When she got back we hung out all night the day after she landed. I asked her how everything went and referenced my questions with some of the pictures she text me while there. She told me everything about it. However, she did seem a little put back in terms of her attitude. I'm wondering if I should even bother or not to ask if she hooked up with anyone out their. I wanted all of you guys and girls take on this?

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    Why would you ask that? The only think it'll do is show her that you don't trust her and lead to a huge fight. If she did hook up with someone, she won't admit it anyway, and just take her anger out on you. If she didn't hook up with someone, she'll be pissed that you don't trust her and once again take her anger out on you. Either way, you'll get the same answer and an angry gf. You have to either trust the person you're with, or not be with them at all. It doesn't work otherwise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheRogue View Post
    Why would you ask that? The only think it'll do is show her that you don't trust her and lead to a huge fight. If she did hook up with someone, she won't admit it anyway, and just take her anger out on you. If she didn't hook up with someone, she'll be pissed that you don't trust her and once again take her anger out on you. Either way, you'll get the same answer and an angry gf. You have to either trust the person you're with, or not be with them at all. It doesn't work otherwise.

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    Rouge, your totally right. And I do trust her it's just an insecurity that I have because it happened to me with my ex girlfriend of 5 years. I really need to look past it. The girl I'm with now actually wished I came with her and text and called me with pictures everyday. Which my ex never ever did. I do need to look past this and stop worrying, thanks guys.

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    Has she given any reason over the course of your relationship to think she has cheated on you?

    If yes Dump her

    if no, Trust her.

    Dont ask if she hooked up with anyone - these questions are different for males/females

    If a girl asked me, I would simply say no, and put it down her to being insecure and move on. I would reassure her and ti would be all good.

    If you ask a girl... You show neediness, a lack of trust, and insecurity, all things that are unattractive to women.

    She couldnt simply be pissed off she isnt on holidays anymore, or she is back at work, or whatever... Just give her a bit of time to get back into her routine... She could have jetlag or whatever. There are a million reasons. Dont let it get to you. Relax and enjoy the fact your girlfriend is back, and that you get to have sex again... Dont fuck it up because you are insecure :P

    You are more than likely reading into stuff that isnt there as well. As much great advice that TAF gives to people, and how much it helps them. it also fucks with there head and makes people read into shit that isnt always there.
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