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    Red head in my class I'm attracted to

    So in my Algebra class my 2nd class on Tuesdays and Thursdays there is this girl shes got a nice ass big boobs and best of all shes a red head. This class we have long rectangular type tables that seat four people per table i'm in the second row by the aisle, she is the seat directly to my left and up in the first row. I saw two different rings on her finger, one on her pointing finger, and the other I believe was on her ring finger. Problem is I dont know if she is married (i hope not) and all that. I can start talking to girls but it seems that i run out of topics really fast unless we find music or something in common that will allow me to continue. This girl seems about my age and im 24 and she's kinda short like me and everything it is just like i saw her and heard her speak and I was like "damn!".

    What should I do to get to know her and what kind of topics would best work for day game mixed with college game? There is this guy that sits right in front of me he's tall and looks really scruffy i see he is always talking to her and what not I want to assume he is just a friend. I've never had a relationship before but i also never really liked anyone before.

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    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
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    Quote Originally Posted by DaBomb View Post

    What should I do to get to know her and what kind of topics would best work for day game mixed with college game? There is this guy that sits right in front of me he's tall and looks really scruffy i see he is always talking to her and what not I want to assume he is just a friend. I've never had a relationship before but i also never really liked anyone before.

    Respond with advice please.
    All you have to do is catch her before or after class. Honestly you could just go sit beside her and say whats up if you really wanted to, i would also talk to that dude though. Making a guy friend never hurts.

    You dont need any crazy opener. If your really lost on what to say for opener, just be like "Damn that homework was tough last night!" Talk about whatever you feel like talking about. its really that simple. if you don't talk to her someone else will

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    Quote Originally Posted by ramblin_man View Post
    All you have to do is catch her before or after class. Honestly you could just go sit beside her and say whats up if you really wanted to, i would also talk to that dude though. Making a guy friend never hurts.

    You dont need any crazy opener. If your really lost on what to say for opener, just be like "Damn that homework was tough last night!" Talk about whatever you feel like talking about. its really that simple. if you don't talk to her someone else will
    Most of the time I'll start talking to them and will talk about things like what they going to college for, and will get into like music tastes, but when i ask what they going for they are usually not in the best of conversation like they will say and then they start to withdraw or something.
    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
    DaBomb

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    Dont make it about her, make it about you. Talk about what you want to do and your goals and interest. Ive talked with girls about starcraft 2 and how fucking awesome it is. Its all about you man. If she doesnt like what your talking bout, she's more than likely boring anyway.

    On a side note make sure your body language doesnt show to much interest. Ive seen some guys hit on girls in class but the reason it never works is because they show way to much interest with there body language.

    Worst case scenario you get experience at class game lol. Next tuesday get your ass over there and say whats up!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ramblin_man View Post
    Dont make it about her, make it about you. Talk about what you want to do and your goals and interest. Ive talked with girls about starcraft 2 and how fucking awesome it is. Its all about you man. If she doesnt like what your talking bout, she's more than likely boring anyway.

    On a side note make sure your body language doesnt show to much interest. Ive seen some guys hit on girls in class but the reason it never works is because they show way to much interest with there body language.

    Worst case scenario you get experience at class game lol. Next tuesday get your ass over there and say whats up!!!
    So your more-less saying I should ask "what kind of music you like" replaced with "I like rock,rap, do you share any of those as interests?" ?
    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
    DaBomb

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