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    Constant flaking from chick who seems interested

    This girl I've been seeing lately is always flaking on dates I plan with her. The past three times I've arranged something she never replies back by text or comes up with an excuse, "I forgot I made plans with someone else this weekend" to "my phone broke". I chat with her in class pretty frequently and on campus we hang out pretty much all the time. We hit off pretty well. I playfully tease her, she laughs at me, and she even invited me to a restaurant with her and friends. But since then, she's never replied to my texts. Is she being nice hinting "not interested" or should I continue to pursue her?



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    Next! why continue to sweat a woman that doesnt reciprocate? if a woman is truly interested in you she will make time.
    "Real men go direct"

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    Is she being nice hinting "not interested"
    More likely she enjoys you chasing her, but doesn't have any intentions to act on that.
    Quote Originally Posted by CMPitts
    IOIs don't mean shit if you don't act on them.
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    Q: How do you know a girl wants to have sex with you?
    A: You try to have sex with her and she lets you.
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/relationships/79426-he-might-fucking-my-girl-2.html#post501143

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    Did you have sex more than two or three times already? If so, try freezing her out, see if she comes back of her own accord. If you didn't have sex yet, forget it, she's not interested in you except as a friend. If you want to keep her as a friend for social circle that's fine but understand that that is what you are doing.

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    Like the other said, just move on. If she is interested, she will respond and show interest to you. No point chasing after her further.

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    Lame excuses. Find someone else.
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/141465-why-you-need-quit-porn-now.html

    Women have two types of toys: teddy bears and vibrators. Teddy bears are for when they are emotional and want to watch romcoms, and vibrators for when they want to get off. What toy are you?

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    Let her go, nothing you can do. 3 in a row? She's not worth it man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Majestik View Post
    Next! why continue to sweat a woman that doesnt reciprocate? if a woman is truly interested in you she will make time.
    I agree with the mindset of "next" but having many irons in the fire not only keeps this mindset, it also keeps choice. It is funny how often a flake pulls herself together when she senses that one of her suitors has as much choice as she does (or even half as much choice is enough for the jealously plot line).
    Je fais du progrès.

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