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    What if a girl asks if you like her?

    Hey guys,
    For a background on this, I am gaming about 7 different girls at the same time, and one asked me today if I liked her.....(We are 18, so that shit still happens) For future reference, what is a good way to respond to this?? I am interested, but flat out saying I like a girl is a bad idea.

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    That's an indicator of interest so I would hug her if I liked her. But that's just me. I'm more of a non-verbal guy. She'll know what's up if you hug her. You don't even need to speak.

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    This means you aren't escalating enough/fast enough. If she is giving off IOI's escalate and bang. There should almost never be a time where a girl asks if you like her. Seems like you are gaming her but not well because she is not sure. Just escalate dude.

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    never had a girl ask me this, have a feeling that I soon will..

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    If a girl asked it as an honest question, I would give a simple, honest answer. Being playful and gamey is fun sometimes, but there are times when you just gotta man up and tell the girl you like her.

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    A girl once asked me "remember how you used to have a thing for me in highschool". I replied (in a playful way) "if anything you're the one who had a thing for me" and then she said "oh, I thought you did". Did I say the right thing (i had a gf at the time" and was it also an IOI?

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    Ive had 2 girls ask me if I wanted to fuck them., I told them yes and fucked both of them (seperate occasions).

    if you make a joke youre gonna come off as a douche. If you like her say yes. If you dont then stop talking to her and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nick_718 View Post
    Ive had 2 girls ask me if I wanted to fuck them. Fucked them both in separate occasions.
    I lost another bit of my innocence reading this... Aren't you da man or what! Lucky you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grimbo View Post
    Hey guys,
    For a background on this, I am gaming about 7 different girls at the same time, and one asked me today if I liked her.....(We are 18, so that shit still happens) For future reference, what is a good way to respond to this?? I am interested, but flat out saying I like a girl is a bad idea.

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    Depends on two things:
    1) Do you want her to be your girlfriend?
    2) Do you know alot about her?

    If you know her very well:
    Tell her the truth.

    If you DON'T know her very well:
    Its to early to tell I like AB, and C about you but still undecided .... (pause) ... you should help me figure out if your lmy type. <--Personality wise
    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
    DaBomb

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlueDuel View Post
    I lost another bit of my innocence reading this... Aren't you da man or what! Lucky you.
    I think its the same concept. Cuz I did like them.

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