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    drunk girl... too easy?

    Hey guys,

    Last night I was at a club with my two apartment mates (one girl, one guy) and another girl who's friends with the first girl. I had met her before and we had talked a lot that time. Mainly silly stuff, I just wanted to have a good laugh that night.

    Anyways, as soon as my two flat mates started dancing with each other (there was something going on between) the other girl started talking to me, A LOT. And danced. She had drunk a lot but could walk/stand nonetheless. She was clearly sending me "invites" on escalating on her, and if she wasn't that drunk I would've done it straight away. The fact that she was drunk put me off a little and, having to live with her (girl)friend, I thought it was best not to do anything.

    One question of hers in the middle of the night: "do you have a girlfriend?" . and only at the end: "I was awake all night last night talking with my bf on skype, it was our four month anniversary".


    What do you guys do in these situations? Should I have gone for it anyway?

    Thanks!



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    anytime they ask you have a gf its an awesome sign....

    Seems like you were just scared to escalate thats unfortunate because thats an easy lay.

    Also the gf thing is not really a shit test. You can be like I'm still looking for my soulmate or if you have a fun dynamic going you can say I have thursdays open.

    Seems like she was into you or at least wanted some physical contact....seems to me like she did all the work and you were just a deer in headlights shooing her off with some negativity( just my read)

    Next time man up a little.

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    I disagree with bink. It's not unfortunate you didn't fuck her because you didn't want too. A crazy drunk girl is a turn off. If I'm really drunk too, then fine.

    It's personal preference.
    "You are literally too stupid to insult" "Thank you".

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    Quote Originally Posted by bink1time View Post
    anytime they ask you have a gf its an awesome sign....

    Seems like you were just scared to escalate thats unfortunate because thats an easy lay.
    She is an exchange student here, so she knows a whole bunch of other international girls, some of whom I also met last night. I thought that compromising all that wasn't a good move.

    Also the gf thing is not really a shit test. You can be like I'm still looking for my soulmate or if you have a fun dynamic going you can say I have thursdays open.
    Should I be looking for my soulmate at 22? The second answer is funny, though!

    Seems like she was into you or at least wanted some physical contact....seems to me like she did all the work and you were just a deer in headlights shooing her off with some negativity( just my read)
    Next time man up a little.
    Next time I will!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bearing View Post
    I disagree with bink. It's not unfortunate you didn't fuck her because you didn't want too. A crazy drunk girl is a turn off. If I'm really drunk too, then fine.

    It's personal preference.
    Well, I wasn't planning on fucking her yet! Just making out for now. There are some logistics problem that need to be taken care of. The funniest thing was when some other friend of hers came to "rescue" her and she dragged me with her.

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    You should trust your instincts more. They are accurate enough to tell you when a target is too wasted to stay awake so you can close, or likely to vomit on you/your bed/your unsuspecting cat/etc.

    Personally I like girls a little more sober because the challenge, oftentimes, is more entertaining than the close.

    Whatever you do though, don't hesitate. Hanging around a drunk chick you weren't going to close robs you of time spent opening other sets.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Th3_Jester View Post
    Whatever you do though, don't hesitate. [...]
    Yeah, that's what I should be working on. I think both mystery method and magic bullets opened my eyes quite a bit and made me notice a whole lot of things I didn't care about before, but now it's time to take action.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Th3_Jester View Post
    Hanging around a drunk chick you weren't going to close robs you of time spent opening other sets.
    pretty much this....I just assumed if he is with the drunk chick and not opening sets then he wants to hit

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    Thanks a lot for the replies, guys.

    Can I ask you all one more question?
    I'm going to a dinner event next monday, with 50+ people coming. It's cool because the courses are in reverse order, so that's something new/unusual and it would be a good excuse to meet up. To make it less of a date, because I really haven't gone into the comfort zone yet, I can invite my two flat mates, who have been fuck buddies for two days now. She's friends with the girl.
    There are going to be people from college over there, a few from my same major.

    Is that a good move or should I plan something in some less crowded place?

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