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    frustrated with women. she wont text me back

    So we had our first dinner date out of 2 dates, dinner went well and ended with a hug and a kiss.

    She texted me after saying we should do it again
    I texted saying... for sure, if everthing works out we can spend new years together
    shes texed ya!

    that was the end of our conversation that night

    I text her the next day to see how her day is going and she was at dinner with friends so i told her i will let you go and i said text me later.

    Its been 2 days and she still has not texted me back should i be conserned or should i keep waiting and let her show some interest in me or should i try to be agressive again.

    ps i really like her.

    Any advice guys?

    thanks highrise84



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    Have a look in the "text and phone game forum" or search "won't text back". This is a very common question and you'll find all of the answers your looking for. Good luck dude and don't smother her in msgs.

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    give her space!!!.. women need space!!... dont be needy and dont smother her... maybe u put in too much.. or she just doesnt want it... im in the same boat... u shouldve texted her a couple days after the date... girls will do this to show she isnt fully linked onto you... she may like you but isnt ready. when she texts u give her plain answers from time to time.. "play the game".... good luck.

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    here's an example... been textin this girl that i met online... still no date yet, but i haven't asked for one either.. i was getting annoyed that she kinda seemed non-chalant about texting me first/texting me back... so i just stopped... waited 2-3 days... figured for some reason she wasn't interested. so i texted her after a few days just askin if she had a good NYE... we wound up texting quite a bit back and forth and she was very flirtatious... she's been initiating texts now as well.. matter of fact, she JUST NOW texted me out of the blue...

    point is, you never know the reason...or why she might not text back... but it doesn't matter. keep it very sporadic, once every couple days, as long as she texts back... don't smother her. if she stops answering texts, cut her loose and move to the next one. the second it starts mattering to you if she texts back, YOU'VE LOST. as Thebulls said, "play the game"... you should be as much of a challenge as she is to you. good luck
    Recently divorced...Lookin for the trophy (after many conquests first)

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    I am sure girls also have attraction forums since they don't know about this, we don't know about theirs. So someone gave her a tip to ignore you for a bit to make you more attracted to her. All jokes aside. If she ignore you, yes first of all you never know the real reason. She might just be out if credit, or changed her phone so now she is getting texts from a unknown number. (Talking from my own experience. You could ignore her double the time she ignore you, and then try to make her curious about something. I usually text something like, I think you have something to confess to me... ;-) (or :-o) catch you later [established nickname for her with some callback humour]. smily face is optional, but just to make it less serious. when she replies she usually want to know what she has to confess, just text her back after a few hours don't worry about it I tell you later. (continue the text with what ever you wanted to text her.) Hopefully not a suggestion to meet up, yet.

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    These are a couple of ways I've gotten dates in the past by text.

    Me: If your free on Thursday im sure you'd love to but me a drink. [so and so] is where you'll find me.
    Her: Ooh I love your confidence what time?

    I didn't reply for a day after that just so she wasn't sure.

    Me: Hey mister I mean mam. If your not already seeing a handsome stranger tomorrow meet me at 6pm -ish and I'll change your life. Well
    [insert suburb] will but I'll take full responsibility.
    her: how could I possibly refuse...where do you want to meet?

    Again don't reply straight away. I prefer not replying after the location and time has been set at all. Until you have the date or she texts you saying she can't find you. Oh and turn up five minutes late works a treat.


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    Hemlin that is slick, and that is stolen.

    If posible call when you see her waiting for you. Tell her that you are sorry and can't make it because there was an car accident and an crazy old lady... Then when you are telling your story, you should be walking in just as she gives you an reaction. Smile and wink at her. Hug on approach.

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    I like that ziggy I'll have to try it out in fact it's great. Haha whats stolen? the buy me a drinks 1 is not totally original I'll admit but I like the wording so that it seems they've already said yes.

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    well everything has been used and stolen and borrowed i guess. But i like the attitude. It is where the nice guy meets the bad boy.

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