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    Finally I am starting my Newbiee mission

    Hey guys ,
    I have been planning and reading lot for the last 5 years without any approaches. Now I have come to a point where I am always thinking about the game and it is killing me. It appears the life have come to a still and there is just no way out of this. Well I think I have to start approaching and get shot at, yelled, humiliated or rejected at whatever . I don't care. I am giving myself 6 weeks till Valentines day. Never took a girls out on valentines for the last 7 years. Time flies so fast. So here is what I am doing

    Monday to Thursday 5 day approaches
    Friday and Saturday 15 approaches
    Sunday just chill or may be 5 more day approaches.
    It seems like impossible to me but for the final time I want to give it a try. Just tried of planning a million times and failing. Any suggestion will be greatly appreciated. Pnkflyd



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    Good luck on your mission, remember to write full field reports.
    Try not to over-do research and reading as too much info won't help your game at all (Believe me I know I did way too much reading when I first started) for each half an hour you spend reading up on PUA go spend 2 hours in the field, you'll more in those 2 hours then if you spent 5 hours worth of research.

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    Dec 27 day 1 went to mall but choodedddddd
    Dec 28 day 2 chooded again ...this looks like a mirage ...more I chase more it get further....seems like this valentines day I have to be making love to my left hand. God what can I do? May be I need a bootcamp or something ....

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    If you have AA then read these threads..
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    Overcoming Approach Anxiety.
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    Dec 29 Day 3 . I had not played my guitar for 3 days now and I was dying to just have my fingers on those strings. Sometime when you take away the thing which you really enjoy, it is frustrating. Had a hair cut and put on my best clothed and here I go to the mall with no fear. Missed three sets but then talked to a cashier in a cosmetic store. She was engaged but I had a good conversation,. She turned out to be a hair dresser and she did like my new hair cut. We has a cute conversation for 10 minutes and I was like lets bail. That big ring on the finger prevented me from closing. Then I went straight to my baby my love, played with her for 3 hours. Man I was loud with those power cord in "heven and hell" by black sabbath. Was a bit scared that someone will call the cops on me. A small start....

    Dec 30 Day 4 went to shopping to walmart . Did not open anyone. So much going through my mind. After gym went to Borders to read. I was hoping I will see some cutie there but no one .But have great plans for tomorrow. Goal is to open 15 sets in the night ( 5 direct, 5 indirect and 5 situational) and at least cross over to attraction. For day I have to open 5 sets while I go for clothes shopping. The only thing which is holding me back from opening is what will people think of me. I need to be rejected, yelled at, made fun of . My ego needs to die. How about I become the creepy guy for a week. I will try that and see if I can kill my ego with it ..........How much long.......

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    Dec 31 Day 4 . Went a nice club to celebrate the new year. The aim was to open at least 15 sets. Just did one. Went with direct opener. She is like I have a boyfriend, I was totally closed after that. At 12:00 everyone around me were making out with their girlfriends and I was standing there hoping that someday and may be one day I will cross to the other side. I was so sad.
    Jan 1 Day 1 . I was very very furious, that it I will open the next five girls. Went to the mall and opened direct the sales girl in the next 5 shops. God it was a great feeling as if I am on drugs. On the top of the world. 2 of the girls did not give me there phone number as they had boyfriends. One of the girls just left me to attend to some work. I entered a jewelery shop and 5 hotties, direct opened one and the rest were so surprised but I got really scared and just bailed out. The girl I opened was adorable though. Was kicking myself for not asking her number. One more opened, but again I just bailed out after my opener. Great day. Hope the year is like this day.

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    Sounds like your pushing yourself which is good so far, keep it up.

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    Went with direct opener. She is like I have a boyfriend, I was totally closed after that.
    Girls say that a lot, sometimes its true but many other times its a shit test, when a girl says it just laugh and say "only just met and your already telling me your problems" then don't mention it again and keep going.
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    Jan 23 Day 23 ......time just flies..the past 3 week has gone so fast and multiple attempt to open during the day as well as night has failed. Here I am back to square one. Cold weather is killing me. Had plans to go out his weekend but snow changed all my plans. V day is 3 weeks away. It seemed so easy and I was hopeful that I will be able to change myself this time but losing my faith. Now it appears like I may never get this part of life handled. The thought of living the rest of your life not being the man you were supposed to be is very painful. There is pain either way. So trying again. So here is my plan for the nest 3 weeks
    1) Day game --Just open 4 sets or get phone number/ good 5 minute conversation from 2 sets for the nest 3 week on all working days.
    2) Night game-- On the weekends open at least 15 sets...irrespective of how long it last.
    Lets see if I can stick to the plan this time. Pnkflyd
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    One more week gone no open . Went out to the club alone on both Friday and Saturday. Went crazy on the dance floor. Would be the best dancer on the dance floor but didn't talk to anyone. I am getting so depressed. Sometime it appear that I could achieve this. So close, just a step away. At times it appear so impossible to attain. Life appear to be stuck. Always thinking about game, cant fine no peace. Now going out all days. Mon to Thursday --day game for 1 hour and Saturday and Sunday--night game for 4 hours. Aim still remains to open total of 30 sets in a week, so that in next 6 months, I get above 500 approaches. I always planning and it never goes the way I want. 14 more days for the V day, can I find a girl by then. Scared at the thought of being alone for the 8th year in a row....ahhhhhhhh.....why why why this is so hard for me. It remind me of the song by Rod Stewart -- Some guys got all the luck and some guys get all the PAIN....but Reo Speed wagon said --Keep pushin ....yep keep pushin even if the picture strikes the wall...keep pushin

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    I am making this promise to myself and the rest of the guys in the community who would like to help me in my journey, as they have been once, to become the man we are all born to be.
    Even if there is a snowstorm, hurricane or earthquake
    Even if I am tired, sick or it is my last day of life
    Even if I am sleepy and there are a million things to do
    I am opening 4 day sets Mon to Thr and Open 10 night sets Fri and Sat. Aim is to open 30 sets a week and more than 100 a month .Can someone keep am eye on me and make sure I am not being a slacker or chode? Pnkflyd

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