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    Keeping low for the next 2 week as I have a Exam to take....



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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Greezy View Post
    I admire your progress and willing to do better, but you need to start closing, getting dates, and do much more with your game. I think you've approached probably a hundred or so girls by now
    This is some really awful advice. pnkfly don't listen to this. You go on your own pace and if it takes you 100 or 1000 approaches to get a date so be it. I know that one of the LS instructors told me that a well known instructor from another company it took him 500 sets to get his 1st number close and it flaked and another 500 to get hist 1st date.

    You get there when you get there. The worse thing you can do is put imaginary milestones of I have to be good by x amount of approaches. Bullshit. Don't listen to that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcl81 View Post
    This is some really awful advice. pnkfly don't listen to this. You go on your own pace and if it takes you 100 or 1000 approaches to get a date so be it. I know that one of the LS instructors told me that a well known instructor from another company it took him 500 sets to get his 1st number close and it flaked and another 500 to get hist 1st date.

    You get there when you get there. The worse thing you can do is put imaginary milestones of I have to be good by x amount of approaches. Bullshit. Don't listen to that.
    Go at your own pace man, I agree with what he's saying.. It takes you no certain number to get good at approaching. As long as you approach and try your best, that's what really matters!

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    Reading reading and reading fort the last 2 weeks and for the nest 1 week...I am dying to go out and do some approaches....next week will be back on my mission....

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    After a long time I am back to get this handled. So I had to open 2 girls. Went to mall and opened a retail girl with direct opener and ha a small chit chat. Did not feel good and just bounced. It will take a bit for me to get back.....Tomorrow again 2 sets...

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    No open yesterday but today went to the mall and had my 2 sets. First girl was way too adorable . Went direct and she was surprised to hear it . We talked a bit about what she does and I asked her to be my shopping assistant as she had great style. Went for number close and she was seeing someone. Another set was a girl working as a sales girl late for work. She was in a hurry and I asked her to wait for a bit . It worked and tried to number. Ahhh she was engaged and so there goes it too. So I am closing or at least try to close each set I open, shamelessly. Unless I have 10 minutes of solid conversation , number close will be hard and even if I get the number she will flake. Tomorrow it is 5 open and 15 at night. Let see.

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    To me it sounds that you always post here when you did something (great) and when you feel depressed (not so great). I've been following your thread for some time and compare your growth to say, page 4. There is a difference: you have done more approaches, but there is one fundamental thing missing.

    There has been no growth in your confidence level. Build that first, and please don't set ridiculous goals. 500 in 6 months is too high, I can already tell you are not going to maken that. Either prove me wrong or start building inner game first, and then go back to approaching.

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    Been having a few good day. Finally found a wing who is too good and we have a chemistry at least of approaching anyone without any fear . Here how thigs have been foe the past few days.
    27th 7 night open no close
    28th 5 day open no close and 8 night open again no close
    29 and 30th no open
    31 one day open and one number close
    1 August ...here is the time to get serious and stop being a chode once and for all ...2 open and one number close. During both open I was very relaxed as if no big deal and don't care what anyone thinks. I see a bit improvement in my attitude and approaches. Just have to keep working till it becomes natural.

    500 approaches is mine ...498 to go.

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    Being slow over the weekend.
    2 and 3 no open. But night game on 4th was awesome . Opened 10 sets. 2 hooked and 1 number close and that too a short fuse.

    488 more to go ....

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