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    D51 Went to the mall. There r a lot of girl but all are like kids in their teens. These teens have no place to party and all flock to the mall for socializing. I guess it is just like a club to them. I was very nervous when heading to the mall as I had to open at least 8 to get even. BUt only opened 2 girls. One was at the coffee shop and she was taking the order. Chatted for 3 minutes and ejected as people were waiting to order their drinks. Second set this is my first direct set I tapped on the shoulder after she just passed by me. Again has small talk but my AA was so much that i ejected. Now daily 2 day open for this week....



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    D50 Ya direct opened 2 retails girls in the mall, both had boyfriend. So unable to close. 2 per day this week.....

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    D49 No open D48 only one set open so have to do 5 tomorrow during happy hour....

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    I am making this promise to myself and the rest of the guys in the community who would like to help me in my journey, as they have been once, to become the man we are all born to be.
    Even if there is a snowstorm, hurricane or earthquake
    Even if I am tired, sick or it is my last day of life
    Even if I am sleepy and there are a million things to do
    I am opening 4 day sets Mon to Thr and Open 10 night sets Fri and Sat. Aim is to open 30 sets a week and more than 100 a month .Can someone keep am eye on me and make sure I am not being a slacker or chode? Pnkflyd

    Buddy, That's the promise u made on 31'st Jan 2011....
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    Keep going buddy, get after it! Use the new year to get some impetus! Go. Get. Some.
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    To get an idea of where I came from to me now: The Original Grimbo Chronicles
    Follow me on my journey of Self Improvement: The Grimbo Chronicles Part Two

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    D47 ans 46 no open. New year sucked big time I was in my head all the time so not much open in the night. D45 4 day open but no number close. Again high on AA . I have made promises so many time and I failed so many time it has become a habit but still I can't give up. I keep fighting. Don't know till when but ....have to go on and on.....till I see some light at the other end....

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    A quitter never wins and a winner never quits. I am right there with you man.

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    This 2012 is going to different. All these year I have just kept procrastinating to reach here. At a place I wish no one should find himself. There is no one to blame but me. Looking back for all the time I have taken the easy and short way out. There was the girl standing and I was dying to talk to her but took the easy way out. What was the fear, rejection or performance or what people will think of me. Now I really don't care still it is hard to just go and say hi.Sometime you want to give up but is there a better alternative? Can you live happily if you give up ? It is been a long journey of constant struggle with inaction and fear leading to failure, loneliness, sadness and affecting all dimensions of life. AfrozenSoul thanks for the support. I find great people over here to whom you can talk about your fears and desire. Else who will understand what we all go through. This is supposed to be natural seen in all levels of animal kingdom. Some guys like us keep struggling for these basic instinct. Ok that it I am just typing crap now. So whats the grand plan for me this year.

    In next 4 phases of 3 month each I want to be on the other side which hopefully will be better. So the first phase is about SOCIAL FREEDOM a freedom to do what you want to do without fear, guilt or thinking what other will think about you. So I came up with these few areas where I need to work on . I will grade every week in a scale of 1 to 10 and hope to be at 10 by the end of 12 week. Seems next to impossible but can't give up.

    Here it is another of my plans
    PHASE ONE –SOCIAL FREEDOM

    POSITIVE AND OPTIMISTIC
    SMILE
    CREEPY
    INNER GAME
    PERSISTENT AND PUSH THE LIMITS
    CONSISTENT
    TAKING CHANCES AND RISK
    IMPULSIVE
    TALKATIVE AND VOCAL
    EXPRESSIVE
    SOCIAL AND FRIENDS
    FUNNY AND TEASING
    LEADER
    POSTURE AND BODY LANGUAGE
    FASION AND DRESS SHARP
    NO MORE NICE GUY
    CALM AND INDIFFERENT
    STRONG AND MUSCULAR
    The next journey may be to some where.

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    Not to be too much of a dick... but I think that maybe you need to be less specific. I think that your constant planning is what is throwing you for a loop. You make these complex plans and then they fall apart.

    Some people like to plan. That is just how some people are. I am much like you. However, sometimes we are only satisfied with the plan. The plan is enough to make us feel accomplished. Then we feel no need to actually continue the plan. In fact when we continue the plan and it falls apart we feel worse.

    Just a thought.

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    No it's actually good to be specific. Else you'll have a vague goal like "be more social", how are you going to measure that? Better is to say "i'll make smalltalk with atleast one stranger each day". However you do have a point that it's too much at once. That list is too big to cover. I'd take 2-3 things on that list and really focus on that until you've greatly improved on those area's and then focus on 2-3 new points.
    For everyone who has will be given more, and he will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what he has will be taken from him.
    Matthew 25:29

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