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    Confidence and staying relaxed

    -I have lots of trouble staying relaxed. Is there a trick to this or does it just take practice and work on inner game. I feel like everything is spinning in my head like what is she thinking, what are her friends thinking, am I talking too fast, what am I to say next, what if she does this and that, how do I transition, etc...



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    Well yeah most of the time this is gonna work.

    But the thing to be pointed out is that it is easier said than done. Most people
    care about their image as a whole in a public place and sometimes trying to talk
    to someone may result in utter humiliation. I am dead scared of that part.

    I agree with 3) Always keep the smile on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Savoy View Post
    (Adapted from my post in the "dating advice" section of the Love Systems website - original here - http://www.lovesystems.com/dating-ad...ssful-approach)

    2. Be “social” not a “shark”. The guy who walks into a bar, circles around a few times, and then gets the courage to approach women one by one is going home alone. Women KNOW this type. Talk socially to everyone and have fun – you’re not a starving hunter desperate for a meal.
    I soooo agree with this one ) thanks for the advice. it's very helpful

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    I do some of them but all are useful for me .

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    I really like the idea of warm up sets - they prepare you to handle any social situation with ease!

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    I have already used most of the tips mentioned above. I must say that some of tips are good but some are practically not possible. And your success depends on lot of other things also which are not mentioned here. So guys I just want to say that you can use these tips but do not forget to use your own mind too.

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    Which works best?

    To be yourself.. or be your best self? Thanks for the tips!

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    Thanks for the tips and for remembering to smile and make eye contact. Like Chuck Norris, one have to always be ready to hunt.

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    From a woman's standpoint, these really ARE great tips. Very similar to the same pointers given out to those in customer service.

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