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06-02-2010, 08:40 AM #1
Even though I`m still a beginner, my personal experience has showed that even girls which have a boyfriend, are susceptible of getting picked up, especially when the boyfriend isn’t particularly skilled and just got there first., unless…the girl is in love with him…
How long does it takes for a girl to fall in love?
In such case the girl won’t give me any IOIs or let me start a conversation that isn’t strictly for friendship or professional proposes. This, in disregard of the boyfriend being around or traveling far away.
My question comes from my particular situation, in which I can’t court a girl during months or years, since I travel in a regular basis.
And of course, I know that even if the girl accepts to be my girlfriend, if she isn’t in love with me is most likely that she will get picked up by some other guy, and even more if I can’t see the girl for a couple of weeks.
Therefore and from your experience, especially the ones who have a girlfriend, how long does it takes for a girl to fall in love?
Don’t ask me about the girls in my country, since I´m not attracted to most of them… =P
06-02-2010, 10:17 AM #2.
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Love is instant, its just the things that need to happen in order for a woman to allow herself to feel love must happen. Those things are different for each woman.
06-02-2010, 10:42 AM #3
At this point I know that Qualification and Comfort plays a great roll, but just in order to sustain attraction, or so I understood….
I have seen guys (which doesn’t know the Emotional Model) chasing a girl during moths, building comfort and hoping to get some attraction during time…and just for a guy like me to come long and get in moments, sometime a couple of days, the exact same amount of attraction and comfort…and I´m not by any means a skillful PUA :S
My technique, regardless of following the Model, is clumsy and yet inconsistent, but still, I can get numbers / emails and sustain contact in a regular basis…and so far 90% of the girls happened to have a boyfriend already
So I can just imagine what a Skillful PUA could do with my so called “girlfriend” when I´m not around and she is not in love with me :S
Hence my question…
06-02-2010, 11:21 AM #4
I think you need to realize that you don't need to court a girl for months or years before she will "agree" to become your girlfriend. You need to be thinking more about days.
If a girl says she has a boyfriend, chances are she doesn't or he doesn't matter, or she just wants to see how you react. Sometimes a woman will bring up a "boyfriend" in conversation just to see if you'll freak out or go away or something.
It's also a social thing. Some women don't like to admit they don't have a boyfriend. Either way it doesn't matter to you, you don't know her boyfriend or even if he exists.
Really qualification is one of the most important parts of the pickup. The less qualification the more likely she is to just run off.
06-02-2010, 12:38 PM #5
Or that’s my take, because I do realize that a girl might be attracted to his current boyfriend, even when the guy doesn’t build attraction every single day, which, and as I have experienced, doesn’t implies that the girl isn’t open to other males, especially the ones with some knowledge about the Emotional Model, or natural skills…
Now, I´m not assuming anything I have lived some experiences in which the girl is having a good time with me, even when the wussy boyfriend is around…glancing me with anger…sad but true…and only because I´m starting to successfully (but partially) use the first phases of the Model…
I´m not saying that really all girls doesn’t have a sense of responsibility, feelings or whatever, but let’s face it, that’s the way GOD made women…that’s why I´m asking, if not how long does it take, how to make a girl fall in love with you…
But who knows…maybe having a girl constantly attracted to you is having the girl in “love with you”…
Thanks for anybody else who wants to participate in this…
06-02-2010, 02:56 PM #6
The girl was pretty indeed, and I was surprise by the fact that she was faithful…and probably in love…or of course…sending me straight to hell…lololol.
In any case, I suppose there are guys out there who can trust their girlfriends, and it will be good to know of them
I live in a country in which justice is just a memory and the just are outlaws…
06-02-2010, 03:19 PM #7
When you say, "how long," are you using the English or Metric system?
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06-02-2010, 10:03 PM #10
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