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lately i experience that a girl i text take ...
why she doesnt respond to text?
lately i experience that a girl i text take 30min - 1 hour to text back.. like seriously..
today i texted a girl: "Hey trouble, I bet my weekend can beat up your weekend :b"
her (10min later) : "Haha I doubt that.. my weekend was pretty crazy :P"
me (13min later): "Nahh I'm positive that I win. ____ was paked.. then ....... which was awesome! beat that woman ;P"
no reply... already been 1.5 hours
what am i doing wrong? should i call her and be like "i dont like being ignored" or what...
i called after 2.5 hours and she didnt pick up so i left a message..
i feel like i killed the whole thing :'(
When you're out with her, take notice how often she's texting.
Maybe she is busy? Might be at work? out with friends? I know if I am out with friends I usually turn my cell off, I find it kind of anti-social to take out your phone and start texting someone else(unless as a group you are trying to get a hold of them.)
You should never count on them texting back right away though, distract yourself. Go to the gym, play some video games, whatever. My rule is, anything after 10minutes I will match. So if she takes 30min to respond, I will take 30minutes to respond, give or take. I get a response at 4pm when I sent the text at 3? She won't be hearing from me until 5.
Texting her shouldn't be your number one priority for the night anyway, you have more exciting things to do then wait around for her to text you back.
I'm gonna have to be honest with you. By pulling that stunt, you came off pretty needy. Girls don't like that. Don't plan on her still being as much interested as she was.
I also came to a conclusion that if you're off living your life you shouldn't be worrying about her "not texting" you back.
Don't worry, I've been in your situation many times before (probably checking your phone non stop, hoping for a call/text)
There's a lot to learn. Here's what I do:
My phone's usually on silent, NOT EVEN VIBRATE unless I'm expecting an important call. *gaming girls don't count, NEVER count, -don't make exceptions (I'm either at work, school, or out and about none of which I really care to waste my time on the phone).
*the reason for this is because i decide when i call and text and I don't have time or care to do otherwise. I check my phone when I have time, and if I have a missed call or text, then I'll reply. So that means if someone texted me or called me, they have to wait until I check my phone to get the receiving end. This makes you seem VERY spontaneous.
It's hard to explain but this works not only in life but PUA
i dont think that works very well when you have a life that doesnt revolve around sarging.
anyone with a decent job or a good social circle will want to have their phone OFF silent.
you don't want to be the guy who's always unavailable.
oh and @OP
dont you have any other girls to text? i'm always texting 2-3 girls at a time. so if one doesnt respond to me, i usually just forget about her anyways.
I guess it depends.
Originally Posted by cloudeight
For instance, I have a great job as a medical assistant and have a rather big social circle. I guess it sounds silly, hence the reason I said it's hard to explain what I mean.
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