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    I recently had a day 2 with a girl, since it was my first day 2 I was really nervous. I did well enough to keep my act up, keep conversation going. My performance wasn't stellar but she said she had fun, we walked hand in hand.

    The vibe was good but I didn't feel it was super 'on' / couldn't find a 'it's on' moment to kiss her. I was thinking of doing it at the end when we parted ways but I thought it would be cliched if I did that.

    I think I have escalation anxiety... the girl is going home for the holidays soon so I don't have much time. My only option is to ask her to come out in the next few days, I am wondering if that is too needy...

    And even if I did get her out, how to go for the kiss? I read the thread 'always close the deal' and it now makes me concerned that I blew it.

    Thanks, JB



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    Quote Originally Posted by jb2008 View Post
    I recently had a day 2 with a girl, since it was my first day 2 I was really nervous. I did well enough to keep my act up, keep conversation going. My performance wasn't stellar but she said she had fun, we walked hand in hand.

    The vibe was good but I didn't feel it was super 'on' / couldn't find a 'it's on' moment to kiss her. I was thinking of doing it at the end when we parted ways but I thought it would be cliched if I did that.

    I think I have escalation anxiety... the girl is going home for the holidays soon so I don't have much time. My only option is to ask her to come out in the next few days, I am wondering if that is too needy...

    And even if I did get her out, how to go for the kiss? I read the thread 'always close the deal' and it now makes me concerned that I blew it.

    Thanks, JB
    You haven't necessarily blew it yet because it was just a day 2. If you both had a great time, you kept control, and made sure everything was going smoothly then you should get a day 3.

    To k-close u really have to work up the escalation to this point. Since you've already held her hand, which is a good start, you can escalate a lot easier now. Go somewhere with her that you can have loads of fun and show her another great time and make it "super on". When you feel that you have worked up enough escalation then run a k-close routine. Use the one from Magic bullets if you've read it, if not DEFINITELY READ IT!!!

    The routine is simple:
    Ask her if she wants to kiss you. If she says no then change the subject right away and act unfazed. If she says maybe, kiss her, and obviously if she says yes, kiss her.

    Hope this helps you buddy.

    Sid

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