That’s my favourite opener, although I’m very new to the game so there could well be scope for improvement.
I’ve only become aware of the "seduction community" over the past year or so and have only really taken an active interest over the past week or two. Having looked through a lot of websites, I’ve started reading Magic Bullets and I’m very impressed with the clear structure of its presentation and the very open/flexible approach of Savoy (as opposed to the rather glib “five magic steps to the perfect seduction ” approach of many of the others). I’m also reading Natural Game by Gambler, which is of interest largely because the author is a fellow Brit and I think there may be some subtle cultural differences in approaching game on the two sides of the pond.
I was pretty much the classic shy, tongue-tied AFC as a teenager and didn’t get much better until I was into my thirties and discovered/had the courage to access the sex industry. From thereon the romantic/sexual side of my game improved immeasurably. I have developed strong ongoing relationships with a number of women around the world that I have met this way but have usually relied on some form of payment to set up at least the first encounter. However, over the past couple of years I have had some success with online dating sites where opening is much less pressurised (I joined up a new site for the first time three days ago and made my first date today, using the opener at the top of this post). Part of my interest in developing my own game is the discovery through using such sites that technique and strategy are essential if you are to get anywhere (learn to get over rejections, always use open questions in chatrooms, avoid flattery and if you don’ get a number the first time you chat you almost certainly never will, or even if you do it won’t be worth having, etc.). I’ve also always believed that the quality of any kind of sexual encounter is ultimately determined by what YOU bring to the party (which is where a lot of guys fall into a terrible downward spiral of dissatisfaction when accessing women in the sex industry). Thus it is likely I will develop a particular interest in “inner game ”.
I have often been a rebel/outsider and this may well be the case with this environment. I’m not much of a male bonder and the company of other men has never been of great interest to me. I enjoy the company of women in every sense. A good encounter with a woman does not necessarily have to have a sexual outcome for me and I have no problem in walking away if I don’t feel the right kind of connection. A smaller number of really good sexual encounters is more important to me than a large number of average ones. Likewise a good attitude/personality in a woman is as important to me as looks alone.
I also have very limited interest in white British women (I’m white and British myself) and have a particular interest in black women – fortunately I live in central London which means that there are plenty of suitable options available on literally every street I walk down.
I am writing this post to introduce myself to the board and see if there any useful comments from those further down the road of game development. In particular how much should my age (approaching 47) affect my outlook or expectations? I have been toying with the idea of setting myself a target of seducing a woman of at least half my age by the time of my next birthday at the end of the year (I'll leave you to do the maths). Does this sound like a worthwhile challenge to focus my efforts or just the superficial peccadillo of a middle-aged ego?
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