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Whats up guys. I have been practicing ...
SHE is a VIRGIN!!!!!!! Need a mans opinion!
Whats up guys. I have been practicing the game and learning the techniques for about 5 months now and this "system" as already gotten me laid quite a few times. I have recently met this one person who has all the qualities that I look for in a woman. She is gorgeous, has a great personality, and best of all she is confident. However it has come to my attention that she is a Virgin!
I am 22 and she is 18. She swears she is a virgin. I told one of my buddies this and he said it was bullshit so he called her ex boyfriends (which he knew somehow). They even said she was.
Now I am confident in my ability that I may be able to sleep with her but I have a quick question. Is it worth taking the time to deflower a virgin? I have made out with her on several occasions. And she is keen to the idea of being in a relationship with me. I guess this is what I want to know.
- Is it wrong for me to take her virginity? (considering she has waited this long so far - 18 years)
- Is it worth taking the time to have sex with her? (considering there are many other women who will sleep with me)
- How long would it take to build the type of comfort to have sex with her?
- Can you give me any pointers that can help me get in her pants without a year long or longer commitment?
Thanks guys! Your opinions count!
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Search is your friend man; discussed here many times. However, I would like to add from my personal experience and opinion that virgins tend to get too attached. Back in my AFC days I used to fool around with this HB5/6 and even she wouldn't let me "in". She always insisted she was saving herself for when she was in a relationship. Most virgins also have ridiculously high LMR and need more comfort than your average girl.
A lot of them will expect you to get into a relationship with them after you have sex. I even read some FR on the Daxx's blog about Braddock refusing to take home an 18 year old virgin (don't remember the exact details). Ultimately, it's your call on what to do.
She's hinted at a relationship and you seem okay with it. The ball is in your court. Do you want this LTR?
You should read the stickies and (by popular demand) 'Classic Writings'; it's not that hard and saves everyone time.
If you like her then go for it man. That's why were in the game anyways isn't it? Trying to find one that sticks. good luck
I'm sure it HAS been covered before. But I'm new here too and I remembered this advice, not for getting her into bed, but the extra issues to consider when you have.
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I have used the search function. However when you search the term virgin, you usually get a mans, "I'm a 22 year old virgin, need to get laid" thread.
I don't mind having a relationship with her but I need sex like a crack addict needs drugs. And its not that I don't want to spend the time with her to get "in." It's just the idea of having a girlfriend and still having to "wack it" kinda sucks. I'm sure u guys know what I mean.
I know your situation. This shouldn't take more than 1-2 weeks EVER. If she's as good as you say she is, it's worth it. Besides, do you know how much fun it is to teach a girl all this stuff?!
After she loses it, it's like 1-2 weeks and she will want to fuck more than you do.
"Excuses separate the losers from the champions"
My last LTR was a virgin... and she was 23 (Catholicism, you see, it makes you crazy).
Originally Posted by thecountryguy
1) Is it wrong? I don't think so, unless you're going to dump her immediately after you get it. That'd really fuck the girl up, so consider this before you continue.
2) Virgins may be harder to fuck, but they will still probably blow you--a lot.
3) A month or so, unless she has some crazy internal hang ups (see Catholicism).
4) This kind of worries me, from an ethical standpoint. If you're just trying to get in someone's pants, go fuck a different one. She'll be easier and won't get attached.
For instance, if you fuck her and then leave her, you're going to ruin it for every guy after you, because you're probably going to implant some notion of distrust in her head. Good or bad, I guess, you decide.
i have had many flowers on my headboard but not after i started down my path to PUA guru last month i found one and i had the same moral delema i was enjoying the making out so much and the cuddling and hand holding. i never pushed more then i was respected her boundaries. i get laid like a rockstar now i remind u so sex was not the issue foer me i enjoyed the time we had and never thought about sex untell one night she screamed "NOT fair NOT fair FUCK ME now" (NOT faIR TRANSLATES TO "FUCK ME now" IN GIRL SPEAK) give her space respect her bounders. keno eskolat like a mother fucker...it may ben a wile for u its never been for her ...why rush it just enjoy the ride
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