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    Neg Theory (Mystery)

    A hot girl is there, surrounded by her friends. She has put on this bitch act. But is she really a bitch? Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings. Beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it.
    But – she needs to have a standard when all these loser guys approach her. So her values are very honed and understood. When a man walks up and says, "Can I buy you a beer” this will annoy her. While the guy thinks he's doing something nice for her, she gets this constantly and is desensitized to it. You are the eighth guy today!
    So she is very good at brushing all these guys off. She has to be... she isn't going to sleep with all of them! So she may say ‘no,’ act annoyed, or use some other shielding mechanism, and then the poor guy thinks she's a bitch and he walks off angry and feeling like a failure. And that seems to work. Sometimes when the girl is particularly feeling powerful (like when she’s in a club) she will accept the beer and then flake the guy off. Hey, the guys are stupid enough to buy her one; she might as well take it.
    When she accepts a beer from you, the girl is really saying, "I don't know you and I don't care about you. You are just another one of those typical guys and since I don't respect you, I’ll take the beer from you before I snub you.”
    Since hot girls are so good at snubbing your approach, snubbing them is important. You cannot insult them, because they are accustomed to all the hurt guys insulting them ("You are nothing but a bitch!") so this rolls off their back like water off a muskrats ass.

    How do you snub them without insulting them? Well, let's say she has long nails, which are most likely fake. Now why do women dress so fine if they don't want the attention? Sometimes they love the feeling of control. They are in a club with friends and they want to be the leader of their social circle and get all the attention. The guys come and buy drinks for them and she gets a kick out of knocking the guys down. It’s all in a days play. So, she is wearing fake nails to look even better! Most guys will say, "Wow you are so beautiful!" Boring, typical and in her mind by now, true (after years of this.)


    Imagine now, a guy comes along and says "Nice nails. Are they real?" She will have to concede, "No, acrylic." And he says (like he didn't notice it was a put down), "Oh. (pause) well I guess they still look good." Then he turns his back to her.


    What does this do to her? Well, he didn't treat her like shit and insult her. Instead, he complimented her, but the result was to target her insecurity. She thinks, "I’m hot I’m beautiful” – (especially in her current emotional state of control) – “but I didn't win this guy over. I’m so good at this… I’ll just fix that little smear on my image that he has of me."


    Then you continue to show disinterest in her looks as you give her a neutral topic like the Elvis bit. During this time, her intention is to get you to become like all the other guys so she can feel in control and snub you. Then you give her another Neg like this: "Is that a hair piece? Well, it’s neat... what do you call this hairstyle? The waffle?" Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting. You are pleasant but disinterested in her beauty. This will intrigue her because she knows guys. And this isn't normal. You must have really high taste, or be used to girls, or be married or something. These questions make her curious. So this keeps happening and is known as flirting. She gives you little negs and these tests are qualifiers. You pass them by negging her back. After all, you aren't like the others showing interest. But... why not?


    To get control again, she says, "Will you buy me a drink?" Notice how she is trying to get you now! But, she only wants to sucker you in enough so she can snub you. That is all she is about – this strategy is all she knows and it's not working on you so she is trying to do damage control on the situation. But at the same time she doesn't quite understand why you don’t think she’s “all that.” After all, her nails are fake.


    You say, "Ah, that's so funny ... your nose wiggles when you speak......” – (pointing and being cute) – “look there it goes again ... it’s so... quaint ... hheeeee look." She'll say, "Ahh, stoppp!" *blush*. Now she is self-conscious and this is where you want her. You have, with three negs, successfully created interest (curiosity) and removed her from her pedestal (removed her protection shield.) You were humorous, you had a smile, you dress well, you are confident and everything she would want in a man.


    You didn't take her shit. Oh… and when she asked you for a beer, you said, "No. I don't buy girls drinks. But you can buy me one.” You are qualifying her now. If she buys you a beer, this is symbolic of her respect for you.


    If not, you say, "Pleasure meeting you" [not sarcastically] and turn your back to her again. Don’t walk away, just turn your back. You are negging her again just when she thought she was negging you. You are teasing each other. It’s flirting – this is all textbook psychology.


    A neg is a qualifier. The girl is failing to meet your high expectations. It's not an insult, just a judgment call on your part. You’re not even trying to make her feel bad (so it seems.) It’s the same as if you pulled out a tissue and blew your nose. There’s nothing insulting about blowing your nose. You haven’t explicitly rejected her. But at the same time, she will sincerely believe that you aren’t trying to impress her. This creates curiosity and makes you a challenge.


    The better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using negs. A 10 can get three negs up front, while an 8 gets only one or two over a longer time. You can go overboard if she thinks you are better than her (which happens more often that you’d think.) You can drop the self-esteem right out from under her, just like most 10s do to guys, and this isn't good. You have to get as close to the breaking point as you can without crossing the line. Once you have gotten her right there, you can start appreciating things about her (not her looks.) There is a mutual respect now – something most guys never get from the girl.


    This is how you remove a protection shield. Three negs ought to do it within two of three minutes of neutral chat. Once it is removed, you can, from a place of mutual respect, seduce her.



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    Sample Negs

    YOU: "I don't think we should get to know each other."
    HER: "Why not?"
    YOU: "I think you are just too much of a nice girl for me."
    If your target says something even slightly rude you say, "You don't get out much do you?"
    If your target interrupts you, say, "Hello, I€™m talking, geez" or, "Excuse me... may I finish my sentence first?" You then say to others in the group, "Is she always like that?"
    If you are asking a question to two women and the target answers you say, "I didn't ask you, silly."
    If you pull out your photos for the photo routine, first show them to the obstacle. When the target tries to see them, say, "Excuse me! I€™m showing her the pictures not you. Wait your turn geez."
    If a girl kisses you on the cheek and goes to kiss your other cheek, tell her, "Only one ... don't be greedy." If she says, "Yes, but I€™m French", you reply, "Are all French girls as greedy as you?"
    "That's a nice hairstyle ... it that your real hair?" Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting.
    HER: "Oh, I'm a model."
    YOU: "What, like a hand model or something?"
    "Ewww, your palms are sweaty ... ewwww!!!!! Where have your hands been? No, don't tell me, I do not want to know!"
    "You've got something in your ear."
    "I think your hair would look better [up/down]."
    "Where's your off-button?"

    Edit: "Negs" were commonly used in the very early days of "dating science." Today, they are considered to be outdated and unnecessary, and have been replaced in Love Systems with the more powerful and flexible concepts of teasing, role-plays, and sexual framing. Read Magic Bullets for more info.

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