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    HB7 open

    How did she open you? Escalate her open, phase shift, change location for instant date...if an HB opens you, a number-close should be a given. Surprisingly, bus is a quiet hotspot for day sarging



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    We were waiting for the bus at the transfer station, I catch her looking at me twice, she walks over with a smile

    HB: "do you know if this bus goes to the library?"

    ME: "It hits the south side of the union, which makes a short walk for you if you take it."

    HB: "Really? Okay."


    Bus pulls up as I'm finishing my reply. Me being mr. AA, gets on grabs first open seat up front without taking the opener any further. She sits down right after me with a one seat buffer:

    HB: "I've never taken this one before, i didn't know it went around that part of campus."

    ME: "Yeah it goes all the way down to stop X, I get off at my apartments on stop Y."

    We hit the union stop, she smiles and exits. It is real easy to pick this apart after the fact, and tell myself to execute better next time. I'm nervous about bus pick ups because most women ride them alone, usually in iPod/cell phone mode. I always have trouble going from opener to normal convo.

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    great open

    ok, no cell phone or ipod to overcome. she opened you, perfect. you followed perfect. not picking apart, but what would you think to do to escalate. did you have a couple of moments to spare? be witty about the bus routes or something (top of my head, you are studying "bus cartography" & msu has a world renowned program). you give some excuse to get off bus when she does, add false time constraint...i.e. i've got to stop at the union to blah, blah, blah then i have to go by the library to check blah, blah, blah before heading home. if she is that interested, she'll come with you to the union & the library. feel it out, perhaps execute a takeaway at the library, but close w/number.

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    Good advice. I just feel as if i never have something really interesting to offer in the convo. i seriously lack social improvisation w/o aid of alcohol. my biggest problem though, is that i can never gauge the situation during the day on which opener to use. my head only operates when thinking ahead 2-3 moves. unless i can piece together an approach i'm usually toast. so i always blow the 3 second rule because I can't plan ahead enough.

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    Get rid of the thinking that you have nothing interesting to say. You're not getting graded. Worst that happens, foot in your mouth, move on to next target. If anything, you save time. I just opened a girl at a coffee shop talking about people that smoke in their cars with the windows open when it's like 12 degrees out. She was intrigued & amused. To be honest, I did not pursue fully b/c I had to get to the office, but I had her interest. I did however let her know that I do stop there somewhat regularly, so we will see. You are aware that you are breaking the 3 second rule, so stop. Your sarging has to become more natural & intuitive. The more you approach, the easier it will become. As far as the alcohol, you just think that it is helping you. Misconception. All of the things that you do are already in there. Alcohol just "amps up" the volume. There may even be other things you are not aware of. I would avoid that pitfall. I think that you should come up with some anecdotes, whether they are yours or stolen. Oddly enough, I've watched Regis Philbin tell an absolutely pointless story, but engage the entire room. He talks about nothing, but acts as if its the biggest, best, most important thing in the world. Biggest rule that I live by when storytelling, if you have to "tag it" with you had to be there...don't tell it. That story is lame. I have to get going, but I will share some anecdotes that you can use if you want or modify to suit you better.

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    You guys at MSU? I am a sophomore there right now. If you guys are around that would be awesome, new to the game could use some guys around.

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    East Lansing Sarging

    I'd be up for some sarging. Lately, there is something in the air. The women are very willing & ready to play. I am F-closing my 3rd girl in 5 days. No complaints. To be completely honest, 1 was about a 5 or 6, but served as a bit of a "slumpbuster". Had about a month of dry spell. Needed to get back on the bike & ride.

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    I am at Michigan State, in the dorms right on Bouge Street. I am new to this and would love getting some help from you guys.

    Let me know whats up.

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    yo people i'll be in EL on Saturday, pm if you want to go to the bar.

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