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| Taf: i'm going to try to keep this thread concise. This is my first bootcamp tho, i'm nervous as hell, i feel borderline agoraphobic, i can't even piss in public anymore, so this thread probably won't be concise.
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I posted that about a week ago in another forum asking for some help regarding what to do in order to prepare for this
bootcamp. Being blunt, choosing to take this
bootcamp was one of the hardest things I've done in a long time. The idea of going into clubs in itself worried me,
opening sets was absolutely terrifying. I actually woke up in a panic on Friday evening thinking about going to the clubs the next evening. I'm positive I had the worst
anxiety from our group. I'm assuming some of the other dudes from my camp didn't realize how brutal my
anxiety was.
Sheriff was mentioning a few times about how it should be fun and exciting to be
opening girls. I listened, tried to convince myself, but in the back my head my subconscious was screaming at me "Yeah fucking right!".
I'll spend the rest of the post doing a more specific review of camp & my impressions.
Pre-Bootcamp
I got in touch with
Sheriff after signing up for the
bootcamp and expressed a lot of my concerns.
Sheriff and some others from
LS community got back to me during the week and it went a long way to calming me down. Basically the gist of what he said was along the lines of "relax, I'm available, but we're very very good at what we do"..
Bootcamp Daytime Seminars
An absolute blast from start to finish, really fun. The amount of information thrown at us was definitely overwhelming at times, not all of it made sense to me at the time I was hearing it, some of it actually sounded outright absurd. Where it sounded absurd, the advice was just to try it in the evenings before reserving judgement. I didn't get to try it all (what we learned was from
opening to sex & even relationships), but what I did try was outright shocking at just how right-on it was.
Big Business has a routine to rapidly escalate
Kino with a girl that worked really well for me. When he was showing it in class I was thinking to myself that it was funny but a bit retarded (sorry BB) but in the club I literally did exactly what he'd done in class. Not only was the girl eating it up, it was an absolute blast for me, and I can't wait to do it again.
Anyway, the
seminars were well worthwhile and I've got pages and pages of notes. The coolest thing from what we learned in my opinion is that generally speaking it is a systematic approach. There are general stages we're to go through from the beginning and associated learnings and practices with it. As I gained competence in one stage, some of the next stages started to make more sense to me and I was able to recognize some of the teachings from the
seminar.
Sheriff had us taking lots of breaks inbetween sections so we could chat and catch up. One of the benefits of this was that what we learned wasn't a cookie cutter approach applied to everyone. The pauses gave time to discuss more personally areas I was really struggling with in-field or relate material just discussed. Instead of brute forcing through problems, it allowed for suggestions and changes, some of which made a big difference for me.
Bootcamp In-Field Sessions
I think you can learn a lot just attending the
seminars. That said, in my opinion it is exponentially better to do the evening in-field sessions. The start of the night on Friday was horrendous for me. I was so nervous and it showed, resulting in some absolutely brutal sets. The kind of things that made me dislike clubs so much in the first place and wanting to leave the club asap.
That said, through a combination of demos & pushing me into sets for the night, slowly it got better. I'll go into a mini review of each coach in the next section but
Elate was great at pushing me into sets as well as demoing for me
opening.
Future just blew me away with demos and was so spot-on with pointing out small things that made big differences. From how to stand, what to think of, how to cultivate the right
body language, breathing techniques, etc. By the end of the night I was bitching about getting blown out of sets by girls who were ugly & who I wouldn't sleep with anyway.
Sheriff's response was to throw me in direct with the hottest girls in the vicinity,
Future's was to give me a bit of a /smack for
approaching girls I'm not attracted to. This was a major turning point for me.
I'm not sure what to add beyond this about night sessions, save to say that they're worth every penny. By the last night I was
opening like crazy and honestly speaking without any
approach anxiety. I made out with a couple girls, got the numbers from girls that I wanted (but unfortunately flaked), opened w/out reservation and most importantly was enjoying myself. The
approach anxiety is back for me now and I'm stressing about going to the club again tomorrow evening. That said, my level of stress is miniscule compared to what it was, and there are some levels that I'm actually looking forward to it now. I've got the tools & have gotten enough of a taste to be itching to peel back the next layer.
Instructor Reviews Sheriff
This camp was
Sheriff's show and from the beginning it was abundantly clear how important for him it was that it was a success for everyone involved. The variation of instructors & the different backgrounds and perspectives they brought really enhanced what I was able to take away from the weekend.
Sheriff went out of his way multiple times for me personally to accommodate and help me get the most out of the weekend. I don't want this review to come across as too positive but honestly, I genuinely appreciate everything he did. In many cases it seemed almost beyond what was required and included in the camp. Anyway, I obviously don't know what the camps are like when run by other instructors, but
Sheriff sets the bar really really high. There's a reason
LS has never had to give a refund from one of his camps. I can happily and without any reservations recommend taking a camp with
Sheriff, you won't be disappointed. Even if you're an
anxiety riddled freak like me.
Keychain Keychain is going to be the hardest for me to review because I didn't get a chance to work in field with him. If I had to pick a couple words to describe him however, it'd be "meticulous" and "knowledgeable". This dude knows his shit. When he's teaching, he's very careful to insure you understand and further pays close attention to detail. He was also more than happy to help when I digressed him and caught him on breaks to pester about
daygame stuff. Beyond that though, what also struck me about
Keychain is that he'd be very good for more advanced game and
sticking points. The rapid escalation stuff was cool, many of his stories jaw dropping, but also something I wasn't yet ready personally try over weekend. I know some other guys did however and w/ positive results. Would love to catch up with
Keychain again at some point in the
future.
Big Business
The guy I had the most fun in-field with this weekend. I'm not sure how to describe it really save to say BB's style is so fun it's a bit infectious. It's hard not to enjoy yourself when he's around and he was constantly pushing my limits. It was a more subtle sticking point for me, but instead of having to fake higher energy BB actually injected a bit of it. The openers he was pushing me with had me chuckling myself a few times which had I think cascading effects on the sets.
The other thing I found hilarious and great with BB was isolation. Isolating girls was one of the things I had some difficulty with, with BB it was spooky & almost like cheating. He'd tell me to open a set, I'd go and do so and after a while be talking to my target. A couple times after talking for a while, I looked around and her friends were gone. I didn't move her, I didn't do anything, it was just me isolated with the girl. Was like ok cool, now I can try working on some of the escalation stuff.
Again, definitely & highly recommend
Big Business if he's in your area and you have a chance to work with him.
Future
I'm not sure where to start with
Future, save to say from the first break when he was giving advice to another student it was just so right on the money for me, I immediately asked if I could be in his group (in the camp they pair you with a primary instructor). It's not fair to say that this dude made my weekend, because everyone as a team genuinely was awesome, but
Future played a major role for me and most importantly helped me shape the start of a long-term changes. I am still sorting out a lot of what we talked about and I suspect it'll be some time still before it fully sinks in and becomes ingrained.
Bottom line, the most important stuff I took from
Future was focusing on re-building a life I love. Obviously sleeping with hot women will play a large part of that and I gained the techniques to practice towards that end (in particular wanting SNLs). Beyond that though, I also want the kind of life where sex and hot women are an integral byproduct (but not the focus) and to be open to falling in love again.
Future helped me with a start on how to work towards realizing this ultimately.
Sorry
Future, I'm afraid I can't articulate things well enough to do you justice. Suffice is to say, if you are reading this and have a chance to get involved with
Future, seriously don't hesitate. I'm almost tempted to say I'll give you your money back if you're disappointed. (almost) :P
Final Thoughts
Long review guys. Taking off the humble hat for a moment, my time is important, so hopefully the effort I put into this will give readers an idea of the value I place in this
bootcamp & the guys behind it.
Should also thank Kit (not sure his super power name other than chubby_chaser :P) and
Elate for the approach coaching, you guys were both solid. As well as Karea for pushing me to take the camp.
Only last point worth making is that the camp wasn't an immediate life fix for me. I'm happy with the progress I made but being a little cliche, this is one of those high effort / high return rewards and I have a lot of work left to do. It's nice however to have a tangible path towards this end.
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