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“The mass of me lead lives of quiet desperation” Henry David Thoreau penned those words over a century ago, but their importance has only increased since. When you think about the nature of the ‘Game’, and what we are attempting to learn, at its core it is about … us. Sure, lines and routines are nice, but they are a temporary crutch. With time, one’s personality will be able to stand alone, and the lines & routines will melt away, no longer necessary.
Once the bootcamps finish, once we emerge from our weekend-long cocoon, we are faced with another truth: that, having returned through the looking glass, we can never look at life the same way again. And we are forced to examine our very private inner selves: if you are anything like me, years of social neglect had left me awkward, anxious, and fearful. These were all pervasive, but they were beneath the radar; a splinter in the mind. For years, I was told to either spend thousands of dollars on psychiatrists, or to deal with it, or to find God. In short, the problem was on the outside: someone/thing else was necessary to make me content. None of these worked. I was happy enough, but something was not right. I was good at game, and women responded well to the material, but I didn’t have the same foundational change I thought I would. My ability with girls was stronger, but my life was not much better.
After taking Braddock & Mr. M ’s bootcamp in Boston last week, I immediately signed up both their Inner Game & Social Circle Mastery courses. Their ability to shake the foundation of my world-view of women was immense, and I wanted to soak up all their knowledge. Social Circle Mastery was fairly self-evident; but for Inner Game , I signed up for solely on the good-will they built up doing the bootcamp.
I was unaware that this was their first Inner Game seminar , completed in the time after the trial-run in LA some months back. At eleven (!) hours long, I walked in expecting a rough-draft of a seminar; what I was nothing short of life-changing, and life-affirming. Their inductive method of teaching the material, combined with their always-illuminating (and funny as hell) anecdotes, quite literally left me walking out the door at 9:30pm in an immensely reflective state.
As you can imagine, the amount of material covered in eleven (!) hours was ridiculous: paradigm shifts, biology of the brain, neurological application in daily life (seriously!? This info alone made the seminar, with 9 hours still to go), boundaries (which was incredible), masculine identity , emotional overreaching (ground-breaking), emotional reactivity, and path & purpose. Most of the information presented I had heard over the years (such is my leisure reading); but in making the decision to take an immense of material, and to frame every minute of it into practical applications for a man’s life, Braddock & Mr. M created a seminar that, while in some ways applicable to dating and cold-approach, is SO much more important than that.
The truth is, while you can pull a relatively hot woman from a club with the bootcamp material alone, if you want emotionally adjusted women, double-take good looking women, or healthy long-term relationships, ‘game’ alone will not be sufficient. If you inner-game is not equally as solid, the beautiful girl that gave you her number at the bar will never sleep with you again, and will certainly never date you. Braddock and Mr. M have created a system that left a small group of us who went out to dinner after the eleven (!) hour seminar, ruminating on the life-changing experience we just had.
I took this seminar on a leap of faith, trusting that Braddock & Mr. M would not let me down. The lessons that I learned were so beyond the scope of what I imagined was possible. Bootcamp is great, but its application outside of women is limited: this seminar will quite possibly change your life in ways that no therapist ever could. Thank you Braddock . Thank you Mr. M . I sincerely hope you continue to offer this seminar: others need this experience.
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Content - I missed the first three hours of the seminar, so felt a little behind at first, but the last 8 hours or so were fantastic. Braddock and Mr M talk about specific behaviors and tendencies that are outward projections of shaky inner game , and how to correct them. They also give great talks on "On Being a Man" as well as goal setting. The content is pretty similar to IVS 25 (How to be an Alpha Male ). I personally felt that I did not get as much out of this seminar as I did from Social Circle Mastery - and I would attribute this to two things: (1) that I missed the first three hours, and (2) that I think I had good inner game coming into the seminar. Braddock and Mr M have dedicated a lot of time and effort to this seminar, and they produced a gem, but it will be more helpful for some people than others. I think this would be EXTREMELY helpful to someone with inner game issues, and would still be a good refresher for anyone who is into self-improvement already. That said, I got some awesome nuggets of information that I will be able to apply to my life. I would recommend this to anyone, but when you do it, do not miss the first three hours!
Instructors - Braddock and Mr M are both extremely passionate about what they do, and it was apparent as soon as I saw them in action. They have all the characteristics of great teachers - they are nonjudgmental, patient, articulate, and are able to teach things in different ways so that everyone understands them. The way they worked as a team was, Braddock usually explained things first, and then Jim would clarify by explaining the same concept in a different way. Not to mention Braddock is funny as hell, super charismatic, and a guy you want to be around. Mr M is has got to be one of the smartest guys in the industry, is super articulate, and has a welcoming smile that makes you feel comfortable. Jim was also great at answering questions very specifically.
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I just completed the Inner Game Seminar with Mr. M and Braddock in New York this past Saturday. Since I had just completed a bootcamp with Mr. M and Braddock in Boston the weekend before, I knew that these guys were great teachers so I was pretty excited for the Inner Game Seminar .
Since it would be almost impossible for me to summarize all the information we learned in the seminar, I’ll just tell you a little bit about what I got from it. Prior to the seminar, I thought that I only had a few inner game issues that I needed to work on. However, the material we learned really helped to open my eyes to the way I was acting and the way I was living my life.
I really think that this material was absolutely CRUCIAL to both my game and my LIFE. I’m convinced that it’s almost impossible to consistently attract and KEEP quality women in your life if you don’t have solid inner game . Braddock and Mr. M were able to explain how inner game issues show up in your interaction with other people (especially women). If you don’t think that high quality women pick up on these things, then you are sadly mistaken. The most amazing part of the Inner Game seminar was the fact that I didn’t realize that I was doing these things until the concepts were explained to me in detail. This turned out to be a HUGE revelation for me and it really helped to explain why some of my sets and relationships had failed in the past.
This is material that you NEED to learn at some point in your life. This is NOT just some theoretical nonsense that has no real world application. In fact, everything we learned was DIRECTLY applicable to my game as well as several other areas of my life. If you are even remotely interested in knowing what the Inner Game seminar is all about, I highly recommend that you sign up and experience it for yourself…
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Guys, it's me again, the guy who showed up 3 hours late. I just wanted to do a follow-up to the first review because almost 1 week after the seminar, I am beginning to see how valuable Mr M and Braddock 's seminar is. I am a college student at a very competitive school, and when I came to the seminar, and even after I got back, I was still sort of living in my own little world. After going over my notes again and again though, and calibrating myself on what I thought would help my inner game the most (boundary function), I've begun to understand just how valuable the seminar has been for me, and I feel like my shit has just exploded over the past few days. And this was due to just a small change that I made relative to the potential change that I will be able to make as I continue to practice. It was a little unnerving at first, and I felt really uneasy for a few days as I read over my notes, but something clicked.
Mr M and Braddock , please keep this seminar alive, and for anyone considering upping their life to the next level, please take this seminar.
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I was fortunate enough to be able to attend this seminar in New York, despite the fact I live in London. The Inner Game seminar covers a lot of material. So much that it began at 10am in the morning and finished after 9pm at night! I wasn’t really sure what to expect with this but I knew that it would be good – I just wasn’t prepared for how good.
Having hung out with Mr M and Braddock at the hotel the night before, I saw a glimpse of their ability to break down and explain social situations as they were finalising the material for the seminar. This was like nothing I had ever seen before and it got me quite excited about the seminar.
For the first few hours, Braddock and Mr M talked a lot about the brain and the science behind behaviours and feelings. This really helped to set the context for the rest of the seminar and answered a lot of the “why” questions that I had. I had been fortunate enough to learn about a couple of these things a few months ago but the breadth and depth at with they covered the material was fantastic.
Braddock says he reads 2 books a week and it honestly showed in the way he went into detail about each area. Constantly through the morning I kept realising situations where what was being talked about had happened to me – only I didn’t know it at the time. They also talked about the process of learning skills and how knowledge is only one part of what you need to have.
There were a lot of books that were referred to and I came away from the seminar with a pretty extensive reading list. A lot of guys in the community, myself included, came into this because of a break-up. I found the section on explaining this to be really insightful. The topics kept on coming with addictions being something that I related to quite strongly.
Touching on the concept of mirror neurons and the power of “feeling” was something else that stood out for me. Social conditioning, masculinity, the ideal self and many others were also covered. For me, the biggest epiphany of the day came under approval seeking behaviour. I knew a fair bit about this before the seminar and understood it from an outer game point of view. But as I discovered I really did not “get it” from an inner game perspective. This led me to realise that it was actually something I did a great deal of. Discovering this felt amazing and I felt like a different person coming out of that seminar.
It was a really long day and everyone was exhausted afterwards but I came away feeling a strange sense of calmness. Like I somehow had this new terrific understanding of the outside world. I began to notice small patterns in behaviours and really for the first time understood why people behave the way the do. Its really difficult for me to describe this feeling in words as its unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before. I guess if you imagine taking that red pill and being unplugged from The Matrix for the first time, you would feel really good but also really bad. This seminar is about as close to that as you can get.
Kudos to everyone who attended was great to meet you all. Thanks again to Mr M and Braddock .
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“Most people live the same day over and over again” This is definitely true, we don’t like to change, and its hard for our minds to change, but after the Inner Game Seminar with Braddock and Mr. M , I have become ready for change. This seminar provides an opportunity to take your game and life to the next level. Going to bootcamp and learning what to say, and how to stand, will only help you get so far with women. You have to change yourself on a deeper level in order to see incredible results with women. This seminar provides you with the opportunity to make those changes. The disclaimer they start out with is that its going to take a lot of work to change, and it will, but this seminar will give you the tools, and a ground level view from which to see how you need to change, and what goals you can set to achieve that change.
Some of you out there are wondering, “How does this differ from some self-help seminar?” Well the differences are important and amplify how effective the seminar is. First, youre talking with two World Class PUAs who have made incredible change in themselves and in their life with women. Secondly, the focus of this seminar is on how to change yourself to have the life you want to have, and include incredible women in that life. Most self-help seminars cannot have you talk about picking up models, or how women love sex or how they like to never have complete control as much as they say they want it. Tony Robbins couldn’t get away with that, but because the group is all men, we can talk about all the things that the world doesn’t. Things like masculine identity , boundaries , emotional overreaching, purpose and direction, and how all that relates to your life, and to women. At the same time, the focus of this seminar is not on women, but on how to be you on an incredible level, and how women will become attracted to that.
Mr. M and Braddock are the two most qualified guys I know to teach this seminar. Both of them have gone through incredibly hard changes to become who they are today, and their path and stories will give you incredible insight into how to create change for yourself. Braddock has read about every psychology book written, and Mr. M has changed his life completely to become an amazing PUA and businessman (read both Bios).
If you want to change your life in general and your life with women, TAKE THIS SEMINAR. It will amplify all of the results you will see. Your life right now is on the ground floor; Braddock and Mr. M give you the foundation and the materials to build that skyscraper so you can stand on top. Everything we did in this seminar was an “Ah-ha!” moment for me, and the change I have had since coming home has been incredible. There is still a lot of hard work ahead but I am on my way to Supernova! And with this seminar you can be too.
-DallasTrader
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Have you ever seen someone and thought to yourself that "Damn, they have the life. I wish I could be them for just one day?" If so, this is the training that will equip you with the knowledge and tools to become that person. This isn't a feel good therapy session. The instructors are going to challenge you to dig deep inside and help you identify the barriers that are stopping you from achieving that life (if you're not living that life you have the barriers don't kid yourself.) They have done it themselves and will share true life experiences and teach you how they did it. You are going to leave that night confused and a little depressed. The truth hurts like a mother fucker!!
Over the next week or so you are going to ask yourself serious questions like: why am I at this job, why am I doing this, why am I doing that. You've probably asked yourself these questions before but now you will now have the knowledge and tools to make the changes that need to be made (if you have the balls to do so of course.) Good luck on your journey !!
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