Review of Munich
Bootcamp.
Jan, 23-25, 2009
First day was cold and rainy and getting there somewhere in the outskirts of the inner circle of Munich was a little bit mysterious: the address - somewhere in an apartment house – I was actually wondering if there is going to be someone…or if someone actually found a smart way of getting some 3 kUS from me ;-)
Alright, then downstairs some guy looked at me kind of friendly, asked whether I was there for the
bootcamp “9th floor, last door right.” Got up there and found ca. 10 guys up there in a living room…
During the 1st hour I realized that I was not the latest one getting there…and we got started with introducing us with focus on what experience we already had with the
LSI…
Soon after we got into the material…and for the first day, clear focus was to get to know the general emotional progression model and the approach phase (opening + transition).
Good thing here was to get some practical examples as what to say, to get the opportunity to exchange and hear experiences from one another..and to see that in the and the trick is to get “un-sensitive” to the “un-successful” approach.
That was also the focus of the in-field
seminar in the evening.
We started off a little early – getting there at 10 pm it was still pretty empty…also Friday night was not the biggest for that location…but it filled up soon.
Anyway, approach was the goal and there was plenty of girls…and our instructors really sent us in…my first one was a wing job…so, some fellow-learner had already opened the 4-set…and I got in extremely easily…and into talking…and flirting…my buddy left..and I was caught with the 4 girlies…so, I found a nice way to merge out to…next thing was to get a drink…so, I went to the bar, and without real intention got into a chat with the lady behind the bar…which over the evening extended into a large flirt. One of the instructors then told me to stop and get back to the learning: how to open...then the next guy sent me into a 2-set to try direct opener…she was pretty tall (even taller than me) and f……horny. Don’t know whether it was her alcohol level, the fact that finally a guy of the same size was talking to her…or what ever. Within < 5 min she got very touchy and within 15 min we were discussing here pierced nipples…to hot: I had to de-escalate. Was worried to get done by her right there on the dance-floor…escaped I went back to my bar-lady (who had asked me to come back when there’s less people around…) and very easily slit into comfort.
After some real good chat I just left to find some of my buddies. Just approached a single lady that walked away and took me to her friends – 2 pretties where I got into another chat...when they moved to dancing I just walked up to another lady standing in the corner kinoing straight away...with my wingman getting super-worried since he was talking to her husband – a big scary Bavarian! Took me 15 min. Of guy’s talk to calm him down and then wind out...F...the bar had closed but I hadn’t no. Closed the bar-lady because I wanted to be back earlier – lesson learned.
Anyway: the practice of the night was successful: no bad feelings if approach doesn’t work.
2nd day
seminar: A lot about attraction. Push&Pull, Lock-in, False time constraints.
Teasing. THEN about importance of qualification. Dominance!!
Sexual escalation: have to pump it up constantly without de-escalation to keep her energy up and going. When to give her emotional peaks – I’m actually pretty good at teasing...but did never realize that in Comfort I’ll have to reduce that and ...show vulnerability, create commonalities etc.
2nd night out: Winging some of the co-students...and always worked out. Opened my own set (I love short-haired girls) who told me about her open relationship with her boy-friend...no chance to re-open because...really just wanted to get drinks. Buddy opened...I just wanted to wing distracting her girl-friend..got into talking and told her about my band...which made her want me to talk to her friend – a singer.
And she was cute – a real beauty...telling me about her sexually-inspired lyrics (“no point in getting undressed for you guys..”),
kino being very natural...then my wing-man pissed off her friend so they left...she wanted to return..but I should have no. Closed(!). 5 min. later instructor sends me in to wing with a false time constraint...which got me into a 2 hour flirt with that tall girly with those Brigitte Bardot lips...a real hard one to qualify.. ;-) got really far, no.closed..but should have done it earlier...then strolling around looking for my buddies..
I should mention: all evening buddies and instructors were dropping by from time to time to drop little instructions (mostly how to escalate, how to lock-in, how to handle IODs etc.). Thanks for that! This is in-field work that really helps.
but they seemed to be gone...wherever...so, I decided to kick me out with a last drink, opened another girl with her camera, danced loosely with her and her friend...when that cuty IOIed me from across the bar...usually, I’m not into
direct game..but the whole warm-up through 2 days + the alcohol just made me go there without thinking...using a bad opener...but still getting attraction going right away..she was about to have Tequila shots, so, I ordered another one...and must have looked kind of helpless with it...because she showed me how to do it: “You have to: Lick, Suck & Bite”, I must still have looked cause she repeated...still looking stupid? Well: she took my hand and SLOWLY LICKED it (!) put salt on and then we had the shots and bit the lemons. I could only stumble: “What do you want me to lick for you today?”
She said:” Well, we’re going to another club, you should come along.” Then the strangest thing happened: a girl approaches and hugs her, then she goes: “this is my girl-friend and she’s pretty jealous...” then they start to make out right in front of me...and I just don’t get it any more...
the next-day review brought me good advice for solution.
Next day
seminar going more into comfort, seduction,
text game, sexual approach ..
All very helpful stuff.
On the train back home I decided to activate a slow-burn I had met 4 weeks before...and where I already felt her heating up through
text game...dominance: just said I wanted to meet her. Next evening we met. Was a little late, her a little pissed...hug, tease. Setting emotional spikes for her...get a seat in the bar to LOCK-IN and 10 min into the date we made out heavily...before
kino was limited to legs touching, so, I was already getting insecure. But when she turned her head away showing me her neck...this looked like an
IOI that I then used...then at some point she pulled back “I’m not that kind of girl...not so quick”. What do I reply? First I’m just nodding, then I pull a vulnerability story...and feel how she eases up as I loose the player status. Later we go into animals and share secrets...unbeatable basis for the lay... ;-)
Guys: this is really a lot of money...on the other hand, I really learnt a lot of stuff. Maybe, the strange thing is that intuitively I already knew lots of the stuff. Just consciously applying it is still a different story. Now, I can really try sth. and observe te reaction ...and learn from it.. also, I met a lot of guys with the same interest...which give me a very valuable network...
I believe now that this stuff is really powerful...and that there is no doctrine at all. Everyone has his individual game...I learnt about my specific spots to improve...and now have good material to work and improve.
Thanks
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