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Mr M Bootcamp - Zurich, November 2008 (w/ 5.0)
I know it sounds cliche, but I just came from 3 days that completely changed my life. I'm actually a pretty normal guy, have dated hot women but not consistently. I'm successful in my career and am a self-confident guy. However, I realized that all my success in the past were simply due to the fact that the girls were obviously into me, and I did very little to actually attract them. This is what I wanted to change.
The bootcamp started with an overview of the EPM -- whilst I had read Magic Bullets prior to taking the bootcamp , I found Mr M 's logical explanation of female psychology quite helpful, since he related real world experiences from all participants into the model. Both instructors are obviously very intelligent guys who are able to explain what most consider a very qualitative subject into logical chunks of information.
We then progressed onto opening and transitioning . Mr M and 5.0 gave very good tips on the non-verbal aspects of opening . For me, it was important to learn which angle to approach from, also learning how to make the opening seem spontaneous and unscripted and most importantly, how to smile (or not smile). We also covered direct openers, which was something we would try out in the field later.
After all this, we went to the field. This is where it is obviously interesting. Learning theory was tremendous, but watching Mr M and 5.0 apply their skills was extraordinary. Mr M and 5.0 have pretty different games, but both were equally effective.
We started at a bar to warm up, right away, Mr M pushed us all into sets and watched. At first I think we were all a bit cold, so he actually opened a few sets for us, and then allowed us to wing . It was great to see how aggressive yet smooth he was. He proved to me that women actually want to be chatted up, they just wanting there for a guy to come talk to them!
We then ended up going to a wine bar where people are seated and so we tried a different kind of more chilled out game. Mr M taught how to approach women who were seated. He also pointed out to me which sets would likely be a waste of time, and which made more sense.
Finally, we went to one of Zurich's top nightclubs, and this is where the fun began. We asked for a few demo sets, and watched 5.0 and Mr M go to work. Mr M approached a few sets directly with the opener "I think you're aboslutely beautiful and I wanted to come talk to you." What was amazing was that some of the sets actually told him to more or less fuck off, but he persisted, and in the end, he actually ended up making out with a few of them. I personally was extremely impressed to see Mr M , a 5'6" Asian dude (though he is jacked), making out with hot blondes using a direct approach. At this point, I was sold. 5.0 was working a really hot blonde girl as well. I watched him toy, and tease and build a high level of attraction . His game is extraordinary, he takes no shit from girls and is extremely aggressive but benig very, very funny and silly at the same time.
As for me, I opened a few sets in the nightclub and did so-so, but what struck me the most was that I was starting to actually understand the model in a practical context. When I was talking to a girl, I could begin to understand what phase I was in. I also then realized what I had done wrong in the past was not focusnig enough on the attraction phase and not escalating fast enough!
The next day was an overview of attraction and qualification , which was mostly the tools of attractions. We spent a lot of time on role-plays, IVDs, role reversals, stupid games, teasing etc. This was extremely helpful because yes, it's covered in magic bullets , but some of the games/tools are not initutive at all, so it is necessary to be explained. 5.0 was particularly helpful on the leading/pacing and false disqualifiers and negs. Since it was a relatively small group, we spent time practicing with each other, and what was extremely helpful was understanding the mechanics of a conversation, in other words, a girl says something, you first identify the "trigger words" then you decide to (a) probe deeper (b) tease (c) relate. Mr M had us say a sentence, and have the person next to them either tease or relate, and we went on in a circle, which was quite helpful.
Saturday night was awesome. Now that material was soaked up in my head and I had some field experience from Friday, it became much, much easier. I needed a little prompting at first, but then I was just opening and maintaining sets on my own. I realized that teasing the girls and playing dumb games with them was extremely effective, since I naturally qualify and do comfort pretty well. Things went all for all of us that night, and again, it was magically to watch 5.0 and Mr M 's persistence, aggressiveness and confidence in action. Truly, truly astonishing. What you guys reading this don't realize is that, take your best-looking, smoothest, friend, and these guys are notches above them. Seriously. And it can be LEARNED!!!!
I don't have much to say about Sunday since I had to get to the airport, but I met a smoking hot girl at the train station waiting for the train, approached her, ended up having a coffee with her at a different stop, she asked me to come back to her place, but I had to catch a flight. The experience was amazing; truly amazing. I realized by fixing just a few slight issues, I was able to attract women, much, much more.
I highly, highly recommend this class especially if you're a guy who's not done terrible with women already. These guys will identify and fix a few flaws and within 2 days, you will be much, much better already. One other thing I learned is that pick-up is an addicition, after I got over basic AA, picking up girls is just a ton of fun! You just can't stop!
Oh and you guys need to see 5.0 and Mr M in the field, truly amazing, truly amazing. These are normal dudes who evolved into guys with unbelievable skills.
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