Braddock and
Mr M rolled out a new
seminar on
inner game. I've always wondered how you can improve your inner psychology at a much faster rate. My idea on
inner game was that you'll get more confidence and self-esteem by continually experiencing successes, kind of the approach going from outer game to
inner game. If you keep getting better at pickup, you'll get more success, and as you keep getting more successes (dates, lays,
social circle, etc) then you'll automatically get your
inner game up to par. For example, I always thought I could never get Caucasian girls (me being Asian). Then I got a Caucasian fuck buddy and now I think I can get every Caucasian girl! But this took me a long time to realize. What if I never met her at that specific location at that specific time? I still would have been stuck with that limiting belief.
But this is a long process going from outer game to
inner game, so I was really curious and excited at the same time to take this
seminar so I can speed up the process. I've been struggling with some limiting beliefs and having confidence issues on a deep level. Sometimes I think, "Do I really deserve a ten?" I don't even want those thoughts coming up...
I would consider myself a happy person most of the time, but when my personal situation gets in trouble it will affect me BAD. For example, I remember times when my business was in big trouble and that I was in big financial trouble. All day long all I was thinking how I could solve this problem and consequently whenever I was going out I got blown out all day long for several weeks. My
inner game problems affected my outer game.
But if you have yourself put together and have confidence, these problems should bounce right off you and your emotions shouldn't be your deciding factor for making decisions.
Braddock and
Mr M (with
Sheriff) have this excellent
interview series on "Being an Alpha Male" (vol 25) that has some really good
inner game concepts. I've been reading these notes every 2 weeks and I was hoping the
inner game would go deeper on it. Also, I didn't want this
seminar to be a summary of several self-help books.
Braddock starts off with an interesting quote: "If you want to change the world, you have to change yourself first". We are told what the concepts are for the pathway to change. And so we begin with
Mr M and
Braddock starting off with giving a break down of how we can change ourselves on a biological level. They give scientific evidences and reasoning on how we can change. It was very captivating, especially after I attended the mini-
seminar on
inner game at the
super conference. They talk about neuronets, peptides and other scientific concepts which are very interesting. I loved how they demonstrated these concepts with their hand movements, that really got stuck in my head. Every time when they asked us something on neuronets, I would answer them with my hand movements! It really stuck.
Have you ever met someone and you knew right away that THAT person has his life together? I certainly have and
Braddock and
Mr M explain how that works. Apparently we have certain receptors for detecting what someone else "feels" inside. Imagine when you have your inner psychology together, you walk up to a girl, and she can feel right away that you're a REAL confident guy. That's attraction right of the bat before you even do something.
Then they go over paradigm shifts, how you know when you get one, and how to look for them. This was super interesting. Of course the concept of "value" couldn't be overlooked. That's one of the core concepts in pickup, and I liked how they related pickup concepts with some biology and psychology concepts. It is like when you read "
Influence" and relate those concepts to pickup, your eyes will open up and everything starts making sense. During the whole
seminar, I was getting new ideas and just kept nodding my head. Thing started to click, or like how
Mr M would do it Jim Cramer style: BOOOYAAHHHH!
"To find yourself, you need get a little bit lost"
Great quote! We went over setting goals and what that does to you. Task completion feels good to the body and
Braddock explained why you want to set small goals every time you go out. It has biological AND psychological effects on you that will improve your
inner game. They also went over the behaviors that are unattractive (like neediness) and how you can avoid and fix them. You can't always fix them over night, but knowing what you're working on helps in improving your self-esteem. Also the concept of "being the in the moment", something I didn't FULLY understand from Tolle's book, is discussed. You can be in the moment all the time if you have yourself together and
Braddock and
Mr M go over in details about this.
There were so many more concepts. In fact, we didn't even complete the full
seminar in 6 hours. We completed maybe 1/3 of the whole
seminar and it turned out that it's going to be a 2 day
seminar.
Love Systems is kind enough to give me and the other attendees free access to
future inner game seminars since we didn't finish the whole
seminar. It's hard to criticize this
seminar because I didn't get the chance to do the whole
seminar, but here's one thing: More practical exercises or points to know. A lot was concepts and scientific break downs. I would have loved for them to tell us, "do this and this and this....write this down....." so it's more practical. How do you apply this knowledge? This is what I missed. One time we did do it by writing down on what we do when we seek approval. It got me thinking and when I heard the answers of others, it made me realize I do it too. Another was when they said, "write down all the limiting beliefs you have" and so I did. Now
Mr M and
Braddock should have gone over them with each and one of us to discuss them. I think then it will have a bigger impact when you say them out loud and them providing feedback.
Every single time I go over my notes, I learn new things. At the time when I was writing these concepts down, I didn't fully grasp them. But every time I reread them, I'm starting to see things more clearly. I'm starting to understand what
Mr M and
Braddock mean and it feels good. The material they gave me is so powerful that I'm reading it every night before I go to bed to internalize it. If you've listened to the "Being an Alpha Male" IVS and you liked it, then you will LOVE this
seminar. It covers those concepts in a LOT more detail and in more practical ways too. I honestly can't say that this
seminar killed my inner daemons, but it has certainly made me aware of
inner game concepts. The information they give you is money! I can't wait for the full
seminar!
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