Before you found pick-up you were practicing a form of “
Social Circle Game”—probably just not very well. I know I was. Looking back on high school, my church youth group, college, jobs I held, etc., I was swimming in a world governed by the rules outlined in this course. Unfortunately, the rule book I was given was something created by a series of Hollywood screenwriters who wrote romantic comedies in the 80s and 90s. While they may have made great box office with movies like “Notting Hill” and “Runaway Bride” (O.K., I really didn’t watch “Runaway Bride”—I’d have to have a vagina to do that—but it’s a safe bet it’s in this category), they describe a social map that doesn’t exist. If you actually followed what these movies say, you will never, ever get laid. You would have better luck trying to pick up women with a thumbdrive suspended from a lanyard around your neck (if you are reading this and see no problem with this, by the way, you need this course and everything else
Love Systems has to offer. Desperately.).
Looking back on the times I got lucky, if I were to backwards engineer what I did right, I would probably attribute a lot of it to what is taught in this course. However, lacking the wisdom to understand what I did correctly and what I didn’t, made learning anything from this extremely difficult. Happily, I found the community, took a
bootcamp, read a lot, applied what I learned and started getting laid a lot more much more predictably. My skills at meeting a woman for the first time, impressing her and eventually closing the deal dramatically improved.
I’m not crazy about going out to clubs, though. I can do it, but I’m 37 and it kinda makes me feel like a dork. It’s loud and I’m not really into drunk party girls. I’d rather have good quality professional girls that I can work on over time. At the same time, I wanted to improve my social life. I read Keith Ferazzi’s “
Never Eat Alone” on networking. He basically outlines this approach: figure out who you want to meet in life and then get to know their friends slowly over time who will introduce you to them. It made sense. I wondered if I could do that with women. That’s why I took the “
Social Circle Mastery”
seminar. I have a feeling that
Mr. M and
Braddock who dreamed up this
seminar may very well have read Ferazzi’s book. Personally, I think that’s a good thing.
I took the
Social Circle Game seminar back in August. I decided to practice it for a while before I posted.
Braddock gave the
seminar. Like most of the guys I met through
Love Systems, he is an energetic, enthusiastic young guy with a lot of charisma. He reminds me of the kind of popular guy who just stepped off the high school football field in a small Texas town like in “Friday Night Lights”. For all of you thumbdrive lanyard geeks, relax, he’s not the quarterback who’s going to stuff you into a locker, he’s a nice guy and he’s going to help you get the cheerleader.
If you listened to
Braddock and
Mr. M. on the “9 &
10 Game” and “
High End Club Game” on
the interview series you get a sense of what
Social Circle Game is all about. To be honest: it takes time—that’s why they call it slow burn—you gotta get to know other people, you have to prepare a little bit. You have to gather a little intel on the girl and her friends. You need to schmooze the side players. But when you put all of this together, you don’t get the cheerleader—you get the captain of the squad and all her friends. Together…at the same time. (O.K., I made that “at the same time” business up, but trust me, your life will be better).
In short, it’s an awesome course. Does it borrow from networking, business books? Maybe, but that’s why I think it is so cool. It gives you a whole new way of looking at pickup, because suddenly the business section of Barnes & Noble holds the keys to the kingdom. It makes you rethink how you could have done high school differently. If you’re older, it makes you rethink your whole college experience from being an ice age Neanderthal hunter/gatherer to being a Virginia agrarian gentleman
farmer. That’s what
social circle mastery is all about. Maybe it’s great to go foraging in clubs for what you can find, because you get immediate gratification. Maybe it’s difficult to plant the seeds of
attraction slowly with high quality women, but after a long, hot summer the harvest will come in.
A while back a friend’s ex-wife, Jane, called me to go out for a drink with her best friend, Sarah. I went out with Jane and Sarah just as friends. Jane was a buddy’s ex-wife. I don’t need drama with that so I put her off-limits. Sarah was a super hot former beauty queen. She was a trophy wife to a super jealous rich guy at the time.. I don’t mess around with other men’s wives, so I just stuck to being friendly to Sarah and the three of us had a great time. Over a period of a year we saw each other and always had fun. I’d talk about girls I was seeing and was pretty open and honest about being a player with them. I had to leave for six months but when I came back we were friends again and started hanging out again. A year before we saw each other again, Sarah’s husband had died and then after some time asked me out. I didn’t realize it at the time—maybe after the third blowjob of the night—but I had been playing classic
Social Circle Game with Sarah over a period of 2 years without even knowing it. I was inadvertently sowing seeds this course teaches you to plant consistently. You don’t have to wait two years with
Social Circle Game to get what you want, but you have to be patient for circumstances to favor you (like a jealous and armed husband to no longer be in the picture).
Does it work? Hell yeah it does! I’ve gotten the sorority president and the hot former model
milf using the methods in this course. Does it take a while? Sure, but the results are astonishing and more powerful than a night of gaming. Does that mean you should scrap
Magic Bullets and everything else you’ve ever learned? No, because the skills you learn there translate easily into this model, plus I think it’s OK to still go hunting even if you’re in planting season. The myth of
the game is that a true player can go into any club and walk out with the hottest girls. Maybe that can happen, but the results are often mixed. Plus, maybe the kind of girls you want either don’t go to those clubs or are so barraged with guys trying to pick them up there, their bitch shields are difficult to lower. To have consistent good results, it pays to put in a little more time preparing the battlefield. It pays to find the most target-rich environments and to have the hottest girls see you as a leader of men when they run into you there because you’ve done the work ahead of time. People talk about you in a positive way before they even meet you. Buzz precedes you. Doors open for you wherever you go.
What would I improve in the
seminar and in the
Social Circle Mastery model? I think it would be helpful (and maybe an interview on
the interview series could discuss this) to go into more detail where to find the hottest girls in their natural environment and who the gatekeepers are in those worlds.
Brad P. did a great job in an interview with
Savoy about clubs. I have a college campus in my town. I’m no longer a student there, so how could I take advantage of it? Who are the best gatekeepers to know there? I personally like girls who are between 25 and 30 (they’re not quite as crazy), where can I find them easily? Grad schools? Clubs? Mainly, I’m trying to find out who the gatekeepers are for these kinds of women. Not every town has the kind of nightlife you find in an LA, but that does not mean there are not hot girls there. The trick for me is to find the social networks that you can meet them in the most easily. I gave the example in the
seminar that I really like local TV news girls. They’re hot and normally intelligent. They hang out with the photogs all day. If you know those guys, you can meet a lot of them. It would be nice to do some research on different professions, college majors, walks of life to figure out who those gatekeepers are for the
future.
The big take away from this course, is it gives you a whole new strategy not just for pickup but for life in general. What you learn in it you could apply to business or to just getting more interesting people in your life. How would your life be different if you were adding a
social circle of people who would not only add beautiful women to your game, but were
opening up new opportunities and whole new worlds to you? I don’t want to sound like a late night infomercial for multilevel marketing, I just think that while the
Social Circle Mastery Seminar is great for getting the hottest girls, it opens up a whole lot more.
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