What a weekend indead!!!
First off, I wasn't too much into the
PUA community, but I had recently seen a friend literally transform his social life in the matter of months, simply by applying a few of the tactics that are taught by the community. So with a bit of research, I decided to do a
bootcamp and really immerse myself in the material.
Just a brief bio on me... I was never one to really have social issues with women, mostly because I am in the nightlife industry, and there was always a good amount of women around, as friends and as customers. However, when outside of my "surroundings" or outside of my own club, I really felt awkward in
approaching women - because they mostly always approached me. Since I wasn't getting younger any time soon, and most of my good friends getting hitched and married - I found myself with a smaller group of guys than before - and inevitably, it makes it harder to pick up women.
So once I attended the
bootcamp, I was overwelmed to find myself in a group of really cool guys (from the instructors, to the participants). It was a very free flowing classroom setting (informal of course), with plenty of dialogue
humor to make the teachings fun.
So I sat there taking notes (which I never thought i'd be doing, but the material was literally SO GOOD!!!) - I started to get really good confidence - and not just in picking up girls - but confidence for life. When we finished up the first part of the day, we were dismissed and went back to our respective hotel rooms to get ready for the night, I was totally pumped and looking forward to seeing everyone (including myself) in action that night.
Well, the energy and enthusiasm that the instructors brought to the class was ten fold in the bar - they literally threw us into set after set after set - while all at the same time giving us feedback that was unbelievably invaluable!!!! This is where all of us really got a "bang for the buck" - as many books or boards as i could have read - there was no way i'd learn this material first hand like this without the instructors. And let me tell you - i felt there was almost a 1:1 student to instructor (probably wasn't the case, but it did really feel like that).
So the first night i must have opened about 15 sets (15 sets more than I have ever opened in my life) - not only was I psyched to get a girl back to my room that night - but the feeling that I had the next morning was unbelievable. I woke up early, walked to a diner (just flew in for the class, never been to chicago before) - and sat myself right at the counter and made friends all morning long - it was the confidence that was given to me by the instructors, not just in class - but also in the field.
Well, the second and third day of classes were awesome - tons of material for sure - and going out the second night was even more fun, getting propositioned to a
threesome and hitting the strip clubs late at night was a blast!!!
To me it was more about the experience and getting this material into action that was well worth the time/energy and dollars spent for the program. Do I reccomend the
bootcamps to friends and or others... ABSOLUTELY!!! I don't care how experienced or good you are - these are literally life lessons!!!
Well, I could probably go on and on about the weekend, but i'll leave the little fantasies in my head (and to those that experienced it with me).
The Don - you rock man - thank you so much for giving us all of this material, and your life lessons - we couldn't have had a better time!!!
Hope to see all of you again soon!
the greek
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