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This is my review for my ...
Cajun 1 on 1 - Windsor, Ontario: May 2012
This is my review for my three day 1 on 1 with Cajun. I took a bootcamp with him and Tenmagnet back in November 2011 and I scheduled this 1 on 1 with Cajun to brush up on the things I learned.
Cajun and I met at the mall to start off. Didn't really need to go too in-depth because I'd taken his bootcamp before and I knew the basics. We went over the sticking points I've had since I last saw him, namely body language and trying to minimize showing my emotions too apparently on my face. After talking for a bit we split up and made plans to meet later on in the night.
Cajun and I met up at his hotel and from there went to this western themed place. I started off the night by indirectly opening a table of cougars. Cajun came in about two minutes later and I found myself mesmerized by how easily he captured the attention of everyone at the table. I did a few more sets, most of which were pretty good, a couple of which I failed to generate interest. The best set of the night was when I finally discovered the approach type that worked most consistently for me: direct. I opened a two set direct, which went amazingly well right off the bat. However, I messed it up towards the end when I mistook my target's hesitation for disinterest rather than shyness and the fact she was so taken aback with how bold my approach had been. I made the mistake of chatting up her friend more, and she ended up pulling her away. All in all, solid night, but room for improvement.
Cajun quote of the night: When you approached that girl and told her she was gorgeous, her jaw dropped to the floor.
Cajun and I met up at a small bar/restaurant near his hotel to go over the previous night. He said I needed to work on not getting in my head so much and to relax and not worry about whether a set would go well or not. Voice elevation was also something to work on, as some of the girls I approached had a hard time hearing me. Once again, we broke and made plans to meet up.
We met up at the same place we had lunch at and I indirectly opened one set which didn't go well. At that point, we went to a night club that's one of the more popular venues in the city. As it turns out, I had a bunch of friends and family there for a separate occasion which I think helped to relax me a great deal. The first set Cajun sent me into constituted two blondes who were two of the most attractive women I have ever see in real life. I was nervous beyond belief but I direct opened the hotter of the two and she instantly gave me her full attention and from then on it was easy. The best part of it was that Cajun was watching it all as well as a friend of mine that could be described as a "natural" and even he was impressed with what he saw. From that point on, I was riding a high like I've never experienced before. Even the sets that didn't pan out went well in terms of me being able to keep the conversation going and not getting flustered or nervous. Opening direct is definitely the approach type for me, as Cajun described me as "a guy who's not a good bullshitter, you're genuine and honest and opening direct is perfect for you because when you tell a girl she's gorgeous and you really want to get to know her, she believes it, because YOU believe it." Hands down, the best night I have ever had at a night club.
Cajun quote of the night: When you opened those two blondes, it's like you shifted into game mode. Everything you did, everything you said was right on. You just need to channel that personality all the time because the potential is there and you're so close.
Cajun and I met up at night time for dinner and pretty much walked around, looking for places that had a decent amount of people. It was a Sunday, so not much was happening. We did go to a karaoke bar where Cajun sang "Mother" by Danzig which I thought was really cool. We checked out the casino and ended up at a strip club where Cajun gave me a crash course in stripper game. After that, he basically summed up everything I needed to work on, and gave me advice on how to get there. He told me to keep him posted on everything, how I'm doing, the progress I'm making and if I need help or advice on anything.
Hands down, my weekend with Cajun is the most fun I have ever had going downtown. If nothing else, the set with those two blondes validated the entire weekend and showed me that not only is it possible to get really good, it's likely, as long as I keep putting the work in. I would recommend Cajun to anyone who's looking for help with a more personalized approach tailored specifically for them. A weekend with this guy was worth every penny for me and I have no doubt that he can do for anyone else what he did for me.
Well written review--so often people just write a solid wall of text, I just give up halfway
Glad to hear it went so well for you
Another one burned, another lesson learned.
this is a terrific review. sounds like you evolved A LOT in one weekend man. Anyone can learn tricks and lines, but the insights you got are priceless. great tor read.
Hey man, thats awesome, Windsor is such a dry place sometimes, but the Americans flooding over is always good! Are you interesting in starting a small sarging group
in Windsor ? I have a few people, all of us are around 22-23 age that go out and
work on our game a few times a week. Always interested in meeting new people
with knowledge about the game and to discuss !
Sure, sounds great. You can never have enough people who want to help each other and work together to get better. I'd be down for that for sure.
Hey, yea this Friday me and a friend are planning to sarge after 5 for some daygame. We are still deciding if we want to try the streets or mall, not sure if you can make it, but we'd be down
to meet up since you took the bootcamps with cajun you gonna be the most experienced out of all of us! I'l pm you my cell.
I'll have to get back to you about Friday, not sure yet. I'm going out tonight and tomorrow with a buddy of mine if you or your friends wanted to come along.
I don't know about being more experienced, I haven't done a whole lot of day game approaches, mostly night stuff. But practice is what it's all about right?
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