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narus39 · #1 01-19-2010, 10:02 AM

"Give a man a fish; feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish; and you have fed him for a lifetime"

That summarizes the experience for me. I was given the ability to self-diagnose my sticking points and single out ways to improve them. I definitely came out of the bootcamp a TON better than when I went in, but I can't sit here and say I'm a super pimp now. However, I will say I now have EXACTLY what I need to become one.

I'm looking forward to smoothing out my routines, openers, banter, and everything else and practice practice practice. This form of art will transcend me getting laid and eventually help me find a woman to "cash out" with, and apply directly to my sales career. If I can break a woman's creep shield, I can break a potential customer's sheild. So I'm looking forward to going out, improving, mapping out the contingencies, and just fucking pimping.

I highly recommend this bootcamp if you are serious about improving.

Thanks Fader and thanks lovesystems. It's time to go out, improve, establish some killer connections, and make some phenomenal stories.
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Ascent · #2 01-20-2010, 06:06 PM

This was definitely one of the most unique and interesting weekends of my life. I came in thinking that I had a pretty decent idea of what I was doing with regards to women, but Fader dropped some serious knowledge on me. I wanted to walk away with some guidance on how to improve my game, but I came away with so much more - a complete framework for breaking down and analyzing my every approach, an understanding of what I had been doing wrong, and the in field experience to help pull it all together.

From the start, Fader was clearly dedicated to helping each and every one of us improve. His enthusiasm was contagious, and he made sure that we fully understood and internalized every aspect of the course. In the field, Fader monitored and critiqued each of us individually, and forced us way out of our comfort zone. His lack of anxiety in approaching anyone is awe inspiring, and made me realize that there's no excuse for holding back.

At the end of the bootcamp, I felt like a new man. I was always a pretty social guy, but this was something else. I've approached more girls in the past few weeks than I probably had in the 6 months prior. Even getting blown feels like another opportunity to analyze and improve my game, and I love it. I can't thank Fader and LoveSystems enough.

PetersonPan · #3 01-26-2010, 07:55 PM

It has been more than 3 weeks since I took the bootcamp, but I am still digesting the materials. It was a really comprehensive and intensive 3-day bootcamp. In Fader's words, bootcamp is physically brutal (especially for the instructor, but challenging for students as well). As a great instructor, Fader is not only knowledgeable in theories, proficient in field, but more importantly he has a loving heart and is genuinely careful about his students. He taught us not only the techniques that we could use right away, but more importantly he taught us the science behind all the techniques. The knowledge was so powerful that I found it useful not only in pick-up girls, but it immediately helped me to get along better with my colleagues and friends after I came back from the bootcamp.

Fader spent most of the first day talking about the inner game, which I found the most helpful since inner game is really my biggest sticking point. I was raised in a very strict family and my parents tried to create a bubble to protect me from the "dirty" world. Thus I had a lot of false beliefs. Fader's inner game lecture not only fixed some of my completely wrong beliefs, but also made me feel more confident about myself since I learned how to understand, re-frame and re-organize my past life experiences in a positive way. In the second day Fader talked about attraction and comfort in much more depth comparing with what is described in the Magic Bullet. If Magic Bullet's model is a skeleton, Fader's lecture is the flesh that fill up the skeleton. The third day Fader let us vote for different modules, and the modules he lectured greatly helped me to understand how the Love Systems' model can work in different social situations.

Watching Fader's demonstration is also a lot of fun. Attending the bootcamp made me understand one important thing, that is pick-up is a habit rather than something you turn it on and off all the time. Fader not only demonstrated the full process of pick-up in bars, but actually watching Fader flirting with the waitress in the restaurant and the pizza delivery girl were also a lot of fun. Fader is a hilarious person and that was simply contagious.

I really appreciate Fader's coaching in the 3-day bootcamp. I can't say that I am good at pick-up now. I was someone who hardly did any approaches in my life and even had few girlfriends before I came to the bootcamp. If I say I am good at pick-up now, then I am simply saying that Fader is not a teacher, but a magician. In fact, Fader is not a magician, but a very good teacher. He lit up the way in front of me and I know where to go and how to proceed now. The materials takes time for me to digest, but I know that I am definitely gonna change step by step, and in a year I am sure that I will found myself very different from what I am now. Thanks, Fader, and for those of you who are thinking about taking a bootcamp, I definitely recommend you to take it with Fader.

RockyBalboa · #4 02-03-2010, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by narus39

"Give a man a fish; feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish; and you have fed him for a lifetime"

That summarizes the experience for me. I was given the ability to self-diagnose my sticking points and single out ways to improve them. I definitely came out of the bootcamp a TON better than when I went in, but I can't sit here and say I'm a super pimp now. However, I will say I now have EXACTLY what I need to become one.

I'm looking forward to smoothing out my routines, openers, banter, and everything else and practice practice practice. This form of art will transcend me getting laid and eventually help me find a woman to "cash out" with, and apply directly to my sales career. If I can break a woman's creep shield, I can break a potential customer's sheild. So I'm looking forward to going out, improving, mapping out the contingencies, and just fucking pimping.

I highly recommend this bootcamp if you are serious about improving.

Thanks Fader and thanks lovesystems. It's time to go out, improve, establish some killer connections, and make some phenomenal stories.
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Fader was unbeleivable. The inner game seesion was a work shop in itself, with info that will be useful in all aspects of life. There were many "pearls" of wisdom throughout workshop. Fader was also good at one on one coaching, particularly during field sessions. Helped me to realize you dont have to kill with opener, just get the party started. Useful information on attraction, qualification and comfort (I used the guessing game before I left town after the workshop was over, it should come with a warning label it is that powerful). In addition there was good emphasis on touching and logisitics. Each discussion was thorough and I learned much more than I expected.

I would definitely recommend this bootcamp to anyone who is truly interested and motivated to improve your game. You will not be disappointed.

Ryan hit the nail on the head, teach a man to fish.... (hopefully he won't just sit in the boat and drink beer all day).

Fader · #5 03-16-2010, 06:40 AM

This was a great workshop. I only managed 2 pickups but it was a bartender and a stripper (and I babe ruthed the stripper). This is was the beginning of the hired gun streak in my mind (though after talking to former students it is clear that the streak actually started when I stopped the stripper on the street in Cleveland and grabbed her boobs in under 3 minutes).

I made some great friends and I had so much fun. I actually have another Charlotte workshop on the schedule but it is not till June

We will leave the majority of what happened in the strip club out of the review!