When I first heard about
the Mystery Method etc earlier this year, my initial reaction was ‘holy crap! – this stuff exists?’. I instantly started pulling lines and shit from the book on chicks who I knew, and got good results. I read straight through the book, followed by about 6 others. I live in New Zealand, and the opportunity to use the stuff wasn’t great, but I enthusiastically did everything I could. Where I live, it is a student city, and people don’t go out to talk. Fat, ugly chicks get crunk, hit town, and dance till the morn. Fuck I hate New Zealand.
I knew I was missing something though, and so my friend and I decided to take a trip to England when we finished our degrees, and go to a
bootcamp. We finished our exams, and literally two hours later, we were on a plane, flying half way around the world. After a complete mission trying to get through London Heathrow (cause I was travelling on my NZ passport, and customs officials all take it up the ass) I finally managed to catch my connecting flight to Manchester – boo ya!
Day one began with trying to find the hotel and the conference room. Once that was accomplished, we sat down at a table, and said brief hello’s to the guys around us – not realising that we’d get to know them damn well over the next couple of days.
Mr M looked totally different to what I thought he would –for a start, he is far younger than I expected and jacked for his size. Steve (5.0) wasn’t there for the first day, but he met us at night, and
Vercetti was there from the start – he didn’t say very much initially, but he turned out to be fucking hilarious and a brilliant instructor.
One thing that I have to mention is that the depth the
seminar goes into – it can’t be under-rated. Sure, you get info from the books – but I’m not lying when I say this
seminar changed my life. It altered my perception of self, and my entire perception of reality. What these guys do in the field is just amazing – it will literally astonish you. The instructors’ personalities are so strong that girls will completely ignore everything else that is happing when the instructors are working on them. It is so powerful that you’re often able to tap an instructor on the shoulder and ask what he has just said – the instructor then turns around, explains what he is doing, and repeats himself for your benefit. The amazing thing is that even this doesn’t blow him out of set cause the girl he is working on seems to be in a trance! I can’t wait to keep practising till I get to that level.
Not only does the
seminar cover a heap of material, but the instructors are all super cool guys. They’re the type of guys who are a great laugh to hang out with – whether or not you’re doing game. The whole
seminar was laid back, the atmosphere was great, and it was hugely entertaining. You really get to know the instructors too, which is great.
We went out on the first night, and this was my first experience in a place with a population greater than a sheep farm. I had never done cold approaches before this night – whilst I say there wasn’t much opportunity in NZ to do them, now I know there will be opportunities everywhere – even just walking down the street.
One note of warning, from a lesson I learned: if you are travelling across half the world, half a few days break before you go into a
bootcamp. Otherwise you will be fucking shattered.
After a bit of a warm up, I got into it and started approaching. My first night was difficult and a huge learning curve. My best way to explain it is jumping into a freezing swimming pool. You can pussy foot around it, but eventually you have to do it – and once you start, your body becomes accustomed to it.
I approached about 8 - 10 groups my first night, and by the end of the night I had found my feet – I was absorbing so much from just those 8 approaches, including finding when to use direct and indirect, and how important body language is. I found some things worked really well, and some things I bombed on – including one girl I approached under
Mr M’s direction, and found I was so tired my mind just went blank – so I ended up excusing myself after a couple of lines of interaction (gutted that it happened to me on a 10 as well). There were so many things I learned that night, and positives I took though, including:
(1) I managed to hook up with a girl within about a minute of meeting her – from that I learned that
physical escalation can happen exceptionally fast, even with average conversation – as long as your body language is very strong;
(2) That going direct works amazingly well. Pulled that on 9’s and 10’s, and I’ve never (including in day 2) had anything less than a stellar reaction from it.
A game the instructors play:
(a) Tell Her: Basically if you make comments about a chick, anyone can say ‘tell her’ – and you have to.
(b) Veto – you have to hit on that chick, no matter what.
On the night of day one, here is a review of the instructions:
Mr M: Fucking amazing. Ran set on a polish girl right in front of me, was calm, cool and collected, and she was eating out of his hand – even though she couldn’t speak English very well. He could easily have taken her home, but he had to look after us. He has an awesome attitude towards bitchy fat girls, and unleashed on one Polynesian girl who weighed about 400 pounds and looked like she had eaten a blue whale for breakfast (she was a genuine 1 with the attitude of a 10). After noting that he was glad that evolution would have ‘weeded her gene’s out of existence’ after 1000 years, I asked him to Tell Her. That was fucking hilarious – his reaction was better than hers.
Steve (5.0) Didn’t do too much on the first night, was really there for the students. He taught me shitloads on dominance and strong body language, and I owe the majority of the type of game I have and want to him from this night. If you get a chance, take the time out to ask him how to teach you how to go direct – it is incredibly powerful shit, and you can see why a girl’s knickers would fall straight off if you did it right to them.
Vercetti: The fucking man. He bounced around sets all night, having a great time and laughing at everything. He has an amazing variety of game, and can pull in out in any situation. He’s a great dude to hang out with, and if you can get him to give you a speech on sub communication and displaying the alpha male, DO IT.
Overall a fantastic night. MAKE THE MOST OF IT. If you don’t approach a lot, you won’t get anywhere near as much as you can from it.
Day two: I’m not going to cover the content of the day cause you have to go to a
bootcamp for that, but both day two and three are just completely packed with great stuff. Purchase the routines manuals after the
bootcamp, they go very well hand in hand with the material taught there.
Day two night: Went to a really nice upper end club called ‘The lounge’, or something reasonably similar to that. It was packed with hotties, and was an easy place to talk to chicks. Thumbs up on the venue choice to whoever picked it.
Chatted away to the guys for a while, then started opening sets. After the amount I had absorbed in the last couple of days, I was opening left, right, and upside-fucking-down.
I ended up opening around 20 sets that night, and I made sure I approached every 10 I saw (I fucking love 10’s). I ended up opening around twelve 10’s that night, of the 15 or so that came in throughout the evening. I was able to get conversations to stick with 10 out of the 12 (my shortest interaction was with a blond model at the bar that
Mr M veto’d me to do. After opening her directly – she responded well to my opener - I tried to spin her, but she didn’t comply. I had never had that happen to me before and I had no idea what to do. I went straight to
Mr M and asked how to deal with it, and he gave me some great advice – advice that was totally counter-intuitive to what almost all normal guys would do. Now I know for next time!). All my interactions only ended when I decided to leave, cause I was running out of things to say that weren’t going to be like every other guy would do – I could only remember one or two attraction routines at that point.
The confidence you gain is amazing, and whilst I hadn’t had time to absorb the routines, I had absolutely absorbed the info about body language and
kino escalation. As such, I started pushing the boundaries as fast as possible, and I’m up to the point now where I start escalating within 3 seconds of opening a girl, and I’m whispering into girl’s ears, and they are whispering into mine after around 3 mins. Got a huge hook up with a blond chick who had had a divorce last week, and I could have taken her home, but…. She was a seven, and was I going to give up time on the
bootcamp for a root with her? HELL. NO. So I pushed her away, took her number, and went straight back into the fray. After thinking about it, I should have pulled her into the toilets and fucked her there, then ditched the bitch and got back into it. Ah well, always learning eh

I’ll do it next time. After a while I ran out of hot girls to approach, so I started approaching 40 year old females with way too much make up who loved the attention from a young guy. Every set went well, and I ended up with such confidence I hit on a waitress who was taking a timed test, and obviously couldn’t talk back. It didn’t hinder me in the slightest – I asked about bible studies, she was bewildered so I sat down next to her and said ‘nah just kidding, I’m here to flirt. You’re fucking sexy’. She loved it and started grinning like the Cheshire cat, so I told her to come and find me later when she had finished her test.
It is kind of strange – I now feel uncomfortable if I see a hotty and don’t approach and tell her she is hot, and if I’m chatting to a chick who I like I feel uncomfortable if I’m not
kino escalating straight away. It is a good habit to be in I guess, but it is kind of amazing how quickly that attitude develops.
About 1am the tiredness hit me, and I started to crash. The instructors didn’t do as much that night, they spent most of their time helping us and winging when we needed it – which was fine, cause they had spent a lot of time demonstrating to us in day one.
Overall my rating for that night on a scale of 1 to 10 is: Fucking Amazing (henceforth FA).
Special mentions to all the guys on the
bootcamp. You guys are great, and I look forward to hanging out with you in London! A huge cheers to the instructors – you guys are all fantastic, and you all bring a unique style of game to the table.
One final note: One more thing that struck me was the way in which I was able to analyse the type of game I want to develop, based on my personality. Having three instructors, each with a different style of game really helped this – I now feel confident in being able to develop my own unique style, and works well for me and that I’m really comfortable with.
I'm hitting Tiger Tiger tonight, and them bitches ain't gonna see it coming.
Adios!
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