Jeremy Soul Day Game Workshop - Vegas, October 2009

Soul you are the KING of day game man. I thank you for opening the world of possibilities with women during the day. CLUBS ARE NOT NECESSARY (but can be VERY useful)! Thank you so much. Not to mention you have GREAT name (you're real one).

I especially enjoy your sort-of, dare I say... gentlemanly(?) romantic(?) style with women. It works so well for me. I got women into conversations but could not get further with some. One woman, however, I did get her number... with a bit of help from Starlight ... and brought her out to the club that evening and was making out with her. I was actually pretty upset (not visibly, but later on) that I did not get to go home with her, but then I realize... wtf... that would be considered a SAME NIGHT LAY now wouldn't it? Considering my very limited experience with women, I would say I did pretty well. For this I owe Starlight & Soul .

Thanks you sooooo much! Soul you probably are my favorite instructor... I'll let you know for sure sometime later...

Jeremy Soul Day Game Workshop - Vegas, October 2009

I went to this workshop very curious to see in which ways Jeremy would expound upon his chapters in Magic Bullets . I was eagerly trying to read through it before heading to Vegas, but being short on time I skipped ahead to the Direct and Day Game chapters. While it provided a decent primer, the workshop was quite detailed and contained information that wasn't in the chapters.

LOL, I arrived there at 8 only to find out that the workshop schedule was changed to 9. I'm not sure when the schedule was changed but there were several other guys there so hanging out until it began wasn't too bad. I wasn't sure what to expect, except that we were all about to get information that could help us progress on our various levels.

The conference room we were in had beverage amenities but I wasn't too hip on the acoustics. Luckily, Jeremy was able to speak up so that they could be heard although there was a persistent echo. During introductions it was great to see guys from different walks of life that were all there for a common purpose.

As the speaking began I quickly wrote down about everything that I could. After a little speaking there came a slew of questions from the group. Jeremy and Steve did a great job addressing the questions without getting side tracked or off course. Their answers were concise and to the point but it was good that they took the time to answer questions that came up during their presentation. Sometimes I was still writing by the time a demonstration was performed but each demonstration was done several times so I was able to see what was going on after I finished writing. I thought that the organization of the information was pretty good. I didn't have a problem keeping detailed or legible notes, plus or minus my chicken-scratch hand writing. I didn't ask any additional questions but I felt that I could have without any problems.

I wasn't expecting the handouts and visual aids, but they added to the overall understanding of the mechanical theory behind day game . I liked the explanation on how each area affected the others, and how they can be used to progress through an interaction. Frankly, I had never though of each aspect like that before and it instantly made a difference in my day game . During one of the sets that we opened in the field we came across some hurdles. The three of us were doing our very best with a group of 4 women we had approached and when we came across the hurdle I vividly remembered one of the handouts that we were provided. The direction to take our interaction became clear from that memory, but it also clicked on *why* we needed to take that direction. It was cool to suddenly see the connection between the hand out and the interaction with our group.

By far, the best part of the workshop was the in field "work". Within the first few approaches we were already experiencing and building upon our newly learned theories. ROFL! I remember Big Business pointing to a woman on a cell phone and indicated that she could probably be approached. Away I went and sure enough, she opened! There were quite a few interactions that we went through in the field. I liked the instant analysis after each one. It became really easy to see the things that I needed to work on. The suggestions were good, and the "whys" behind them were also explained. There were suggestions on solo approaches as well as wingman assists.

During the field exercises I learned something about winging that I didn't expect to. I got to see how the instructors would "lay low" so as not to interfere with the interactions yet still be able to observe. Sure, it seems like a basic skill but being my first non-solo experience it was good to see this in action. I was also impressed by how alert they were, always watching for the next opportunity yet being a cool as a cucumber. I tried so hard to become one with my inner sponge so that I could soak up everything I could! Thinking back upon this I think I would have liked a demonstration with them as the wingman so I can see what an assist from them would be like.

All too soon it was time to wrap things up. There was one final debriefing in which loose ends were able to be tied up. Even after the debriefing, there was a little more talk.

I never once got a feeling of arrogance from any of the instructors. Not once was any question looked down upon. Sometimes a beginner can be easily intimidated by someone in whose footsteps they follow but these guys seemed interested in sharing their knowledge and experiences freely. It was like they hadn't forgotten what it was like to start out, and were eager to be as helpful as possible. I even remember seeing Jeremy spend a little extra time with one of the guys who looked like he wanted a little more help. This wasn't a teach it and leave it event, it was a learning experience and I feel that not one person was left behind.

I went to this event expecting to be able to advance my direct/day skills and move forward. It was a pleasant surprise that by the end of the first night I realized I had to practice other skills that I hadn't anticipated needing so fast... phone and text skills. By the time I went to bed that night I had several phone numbers and email addresses dancing through my head, and the most incredible memories of a spectacular night earning them.

I think you'd enjoy checking out the next Day Game workshop .

This is the definitive work on pickup and dating theory, written by an acknowledged master of the game - a guy who’s TRAINED many of the new “gurus” on the scene!

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Jeremy Soul Vegas Day Game Workshop - October 2009

The DayGame seminar was incredible! I am a big fan of Soul and was really excited to hear from him in person....
The seminar portion was great! Soul did some awesome demonstrations and the other instructors gave excellent tips on Approach Anxiety . We all took pages of notes.....
But the in-field portion was by-far the greatest part. All of the instructors and approach coaches were really friendly and easy to relate to....
I had an awesome time opening direct for the first time and winging .....

The DayGame seminar was great because it allows you to learn what works and what to do if you come across any given sticking point....

I recommend it highly to anyone no matter skill level.
As long as you put in the work the results will come....

BIG thank you to the team:

Big Business - Just a really cool guy. The big brother I never had. He was funny as hell and always gave the right advice at the right moment...he taught me not to eject early.

Vishal- One of the RockStars...guy was just really fucking cool and always had nothing but positive remarks

Adam- Dude has a pair of Steel BALLS absolutely NO FEAR, it was really inspiring.

Soul - Totally smooth, charming and cool. He just has a way about him that oozes attracive vibe.... I look up to that man highly and one day hope to perform near his skill level.

If you're debating whether or not to take the seminar...TAKE IT!

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Jeremy Soul Day Game Workshop - LA October 2009

There have been but a small handful of days that indelibly changed my life for the better. The Day Game Seminar I took with Soul is easily near the top. I have been pretty happy with my dating life, but I wanted more. Most girls came from my social circle , and I wanted the ability to approach the random 9s and 10s I see running rampantly around Orange County.

Due to some garbage left over from childhood psychological abuse, I have, or should I say had, problems approaching random strangers, especially if they were hot women. This whole thing is exacerbated by the fact that I’ve been moving around a lot lately, so just when I get comfortable with a circle of friends, I move and have to start from zero again.

During the teaching portion of the seminar, I was feeling anxiety that I would be pushed harder than I was ready for during the in-field. This fear was nonsense. With some friendly encouragement from Starlight and Elate , I did the approaches and made it through no problem. My first target kept walking. Had this happened a week before, I would have been demoralized for the rest of the day, maybe for months. But with the guys there, it didn’t even faze me that much. We broke each approach down (instant feedback was great!) and I just moved on to the next one. Every approach seemed to get better and better, and each time I was standing more and more confidently.

Some key things that I learned from the seminar:
1) Inner game and the lens through which I see the experience is key. The moment that I felt I had killed my social anxiety was when I started thinking of the approach like: “I find that girl fucking hot and she needs to know what I think. It doesn’t matter what her reaction is because I will have said what I wanted to and will have done what I felt moved to do. There is no shame in fully participating in my life.”
2) It was even cool approaching girls that weren’t my type but that had something interesting about them (interesting jewelry, style, dress, etc). In a few cases, I could see that I had just made their day, and that is positive no matter how you slice it. Like Soul says, it’s about connecting with people. Yes, I want to sleep with scores of hot women, but I also want to make others feel appreciated and valued as people along the way. There is so much suffering in the world, I want to lessen it where I can.
3) It’s kind along the lines of #1, but it was so important to me that I’ll give it another bullet. Over the last year of trying to heal myself, one quote has really stuck with me: “We do not see the world the way it is. We see the world the way we are.” I realized throughout this past year that a lot of the negativity in my life was not because I hated anyone else, it was that I didn’t love myself. It totally changed me to realize that some of the girls I had approached who had been bitchy were probably just dealing with issues. It could be anything, after all, we all are suffering in some way. Above all, DON’T TAKE HER REACTION PERSONALLY, she may just not like giant cocks LOL.

I’ll stop there for now, but to Soul , Starlight , Elate : THANK YOU for making me feel comfortable and for helping me break through my first major hurdle. I had a mile-wide smile on my face the whole day, and really began to have fun and I even got a few numbers. My confidence was brimming: in the airport on the way home, I approached a 10 – tall, leggy blonde, with long, straight thick hair, all decked out in tight black sexy clothing dressed to kill. Huge fake tits and completely intimidating to the old me. I circled around and waited for my moment to strike, approached her and told her how I felt. She smiled and gave me a very sincere thank you. I wished her well and turned around to head back to my seat, and the WHOLE FUCKING AIRPORT WAS STARING AT ME. I felt like a GOD. What a high!!!

I have no reservations about recommending the Day Game Seminar . Just do it, you will thank yourself for it!!!

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You guys have no idea how much your feedback means to us and makes us continue wanting to spread the word to good folk like you.

Thank you all.

Originally Posted by Soul

You guys have no idea how much your feedback means to us and makes us continue wanting to spread the word to good folk like you.

Thank you all.

couldn't agree more, you guys were awesome and hearing how this has changed your lives is extremely rewarding, keep us updated on your progress in the lounge/pm!

And Darkcharm, god I wish I took this when I was your age, you're gonna be a monster homie!! Definitely keep in touch!!

best of luck!!

-D

Jeremy Soul Vegas Day Game Workshop - October 2009

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What an amazing workshop . Every great thing you have read here and heard elsewhere about Soul 's approachability, sincerity, and passion for helping others is 100% dead accurate. In reality he is even better in person. His mastery of Day Game is evident, but his presentation and demonstration of the material is unparalleled.

The first half of the session consists of theory and ideas behind day game including some great insight on inner game and approach anxiety (AA). For me it was huge to hear Soul tell us he still occasionally has AA, especially if he takes some time off from doing approaches. But it was even more revealing to hear how he gets over it. You see how flawless and effortless this is for him, and you forget that Soul and all of the instructors standing there teaching this, used to be where we are. It's inspiring to know it's not just a select few "super cool guys" that just have it. Hard work and dedication to practicing this stuff will get you to whatever level you want to reach.

The afternoon session was amazing. Starting out I was a little nervous. Most of the day time approaches I had done to that point where indirect. For me, going direct can be a little nerve racking if I hesitate on the approaches. Fortunately I had a great Approach Coach in UK Charmer, out there talking me through sticking points and sending me back into sets. Charmer was full of encouragement and feedback and had a knack for keeping all the guys in my group active, positive and learning from each interaction (even each others).

My third or fourth approach of the day was a girl on her cell phone. Before the start of the day I thought there would be no way I could approach a girl on her phone. On this approach though, by the time I realized she was on her phone I was a few steps from her and had been through a few "warm up" sets so decided to go for it. Long story short, not only did I number close, but she called me several times while she was in Vegas to try and meet up. I add that last part to really give you an idea of how powerful this stuff can be. As Soul told us early on; girls rarely get approached in public, and the few times they do, it can be in a creepy or awkward way if not done correctly. Having the balls (and the right game plan, which Soul teaches flawlessly) to go direct with a girl in a public setting will get you a lot of mileage on the attraction side of the EP Model.

Another number close was with an extremely hot bartender on her way to work. How many times a day does this girl get hit on? In Vegas? More than I can count, I'm sure. So why did she give some random guy, who stopped her on her way to work; her phone number and Facebook info? All the credit goes to Soul for his teachings and demonstrations and UK Charmer for his encouragement and feedback. The day before this workshop that wouldn't have happened. Most likely because I never would have stopped her in the first place; but even if I did I wouldn't have known how to present my best self.

Thank you Soul ; as Stormboy so eloquently said; you are truly a guru.

Thank you UK Charmer; your feedback and support (especially over e-mail after the workshop ) have been inspiring.

For all the guys out there debating whether to take this or not; take it! It will change your life. The workshop and infield portion is filled with a ton of top of the line instructors and coaches, who really take an active participation in your success; even after the workshop ends. It's also a chance to meet some really great guys who all have similar goals. You won't regret it.