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    Introductory post!

    Ok so I was referred to this forum. Im gonna keep this post as short as possible.

    Introduction (Skip if u want): I jst finished 1st year college. I am an average+ looking guy. I like to 'peacock'. And by my looks everybody Ive met in the past year thinks I get laid very often 'from first impression'. They could not be more wrong. Thing is I've never even kissed a girl, this is even because Im very picky with girls. I do not try to game a girl unless I like her. During my life several girls have been attracted to me, but its usually when they do not meet my expectations. I like psychology. I try to be social. Ive joined a fraternity, but still my game skill is pretty low. Ive read Magic Bullets, MM, and Conquer your Campus. I think that my lack of practice has had a lot to do with my unsuccess with women. I always 'liked' the 'not much talk' cool dude. And that who I think I am.

    What I want: I wanna prove myself I can do this. I know Im a very high value person. Very smart, average+ looking, pretty social, and during my life there have been very few things Ive set myself to do and I have not succeeded... Im also doing it to raise my value. Being seen with HBs around all the time should raise ur real value.

    Now: Im now legal to go to clubs from 1 week, so I think I should start this. I jst wanna start somewhere where Im unknown(not college) and wont care about ppl opinion.

    a) How to find 'wingmen' who could help me in this proccess without judging me? I feel uncomfortable talking to my friends about this.
    b) What stade am I in? What should I do next?

    Im set to this now. Ill spend as much time as it takes but Im gonna succeed.



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    If people have an impression that you get laid then that's a good thing. When you are starting out don't be so picky in terms of, "I can't touch this girl, I don't LIKE her". Don't lower your standards either. Don't touch anything below an HB6. You just said you have hobbies and are in a fraternity. You have built a good foundation so far. You also seem well read if you have actually read MB, TMM, and CYC. All that needs to be done is going out and actively practicing.

    If you are looking for wingmen, check out the "Meetsups and Wings" section on the forums. If you can't find someone just start going out with your friends or alone. If you go with your friends you don't have to explain them the game. Most guys out there know about winging anyway. Just ask them to wing.

    As for the next steps all you need to do is get started and improve your game. Go out in the field and if you have any questions/unique situations that need explaining, the forums are your best friend.

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    Thanx a lot dude

    Another issue I have is I literally can make ppl love me when being alone. But when in a group / set, I jst dont feel like screaming and saying BS due to my 'not much talk - I dont give a fuck - cool' mindset... Idk if thats bad or not. You know there are some ppl i know who would jst tell the most unbeliavable BS, and brag about stuff, without anyone asking them... I am not like that and I dont know if I wanna be like that

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    Try to figure it out what fits you better, i mean if you like to be the one that attracts the attention from everyone by telling an awesome history, the one that said jokes, etc, you need to figure it out how to "entertain" and method gets along with you.

    By the way, i was exactly in the same situation i even confessed to a girlfriend that i was virgin and she just laugh about it saying that it wasn't true, the same used to happened me with female girlfriends i told them i was virgin, and they didn't believe it.


    Good luck!

    Just another thing, people thinking that you get laid it's good trust me ( as Budding P said).

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    Dudes. The same thing is about me too. I know what you must have felt. I have never been a hot shot when talking to girls and stuff but sometimes my friends ( straight ) compliment my looks or say like "if I had your looks I would get shit load of sex tonight". Usually it makes me feel bad as I know I have nothing to do with my looks when I lack skill.. However, things have gone better lately when I read Magic Bullets and joined the forums .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Don gato View Post
    Try to figure it out what fits you better, i mean if you like to be the one that attracts the attention from everyone by telling an awesome history, the one that said jokes, etc, you need to figure it out how to "entertain" and method gets along with you.

    By the way, i was exactly in the same situation i even confessed to a girlfriend that i was virgin and she just laugh about it saying that it wasn't true, the same used to happened me with female girlfriends i told them i was virgin, and they didn't believe it.


    Good luck!

    Just another thing, people thinking that you get laid it's good trust me ( as Budding P said).
    Ye I think the last line too. and that actually gave me confidence sometime ago.

    I wanna attract the attention of everybody when being in a group, but I dont wanna 'fight' for it, u know not 'try too hard'... I dont wanna be 'the guy who tries to impress everybody'

    Anyway ye today Im going to a local pub with some friends, lets see how it ends.

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    Hey Ali, I see that you're from Toronto, if you're interested in sarging with me some time, send me a PM with your email.

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    Ali G, I never knew you were from Toronto. We should meet up sometime bro .

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