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- 06-08-2009, 07:58 PM #1
We stood at the side of the movie theater, me awkwardly leaning against the cement wall while she stood in her cute little summer dress at the curb. She was gorgeous, I still couldn't believe she actually agreed to go to the next week's high school prom with me. The second she opened her mouth, I knew something was wrong. Like the flash of far-away lightning, the sad tilt of her eyebrows told me to brace myself for the crash. The inevitable 4 words that had haunted me for my entire adolesant life, the words every man rues to hear. - "Fenn, let's just be friends"
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"Yeah, sure!" I said, the cheerfulness in my voice hiding my crushed self-esteem better than even I thought it could. I had liked this girl for the past 2 years, and used asking her to prom was my planned jump-off point to what I thought was going to be a successful and passion filled relationship.
When I saw her the next week locked at the lips to a guy who I barely saw her even talking to earlier, something died inside of me. This girl, the one person I thought I had ever loved - returned none of my feelings. I chased her for another year after that, refusing to admit to myself that her ship had sailed.
She was the one - I still know it. My one-itis vaccination.
After I managed to recover from my "illness", I discovered the community. I found a beat-up copy of "The Mystery Method" in a second hand bookstore, but was too embarrassed to buy it. I ordered it online instead, to avoid the awkward admittance to any human being of my own inadequacy. I stashed that book under my bed, reading it after work and living it on the weekend. didn't - and still haven't - let any of my friends or co-workers know I was doing this. Learning how to get with girls from books and over the internet? Of course not! I'd have to be a loser to do that ... right?
I got a haircut. I hit the gym. I started eating better.
I bought Magic Bullets, I watched in-field footage and read books on NLP and Speed Seduction. I started feeling the confidence I so often had to fake. Then one night in a crowded nightclub, I got it. The one thing I had been working towards for the last 6 months. The holy grail. My first cold-approach number close. I called her a week later, not because I was acting non-needy - but because I was downright scared. We went out twice. I noticed something different about those dates than any I had gone on before. I wasn't nervous. Why would I be nervous?
I was confident. I was in control.
We went out twice, I got bored and didn't call her again.
It's been another 6 months since that first "Pick-up" date. I'm a new man. was always outgoing, and a good conversationalist, but I was never very "Lucky" with women (Although I now know it has nothing to do with luck). My sticking points are wide, varied, and numerous - but I'm on the road now. Regular guys at parties are no longer a threat. Clubs still present a huge obstacle to me, but my failures are definitely softer and less numerous than they used to be.
I joined here because I've plateaued with what I can do alone. I need interactive feedback, a forum to share field reports and my own silly theories on what to do with girls. I tried a couple other free forums, but they are completely filled with dudes who are trying to be heroes to other guys. After lurking here for a while, I see the advantage of having such knowledgeable and (mostly) down to earth people around to help guide me.
Nice to meet you all.
Thanks for reading this novel of a post, can't wait to share (but mostly sponge off) ideas with you guys!
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