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    I got a date tomorrow night. Im getting laid.
    Are you?
    You seem to be beyond help or hope.



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    dude, your unwaning negativity only perpetuates your sadness and misfortune.

    look, I suck at 'the game'. At the moment, I am in a 'rut' just like you. And like you, I've approached a couple sets, then wussied out.

    However, in some of these sets, I got good reactions. In a couple of them, they were such positive, playful interactions where I genuinely liked the girl, she liked me and qualified like hell, but I simply ejected. having not spoken to a girl for years, I had the best time I have had since I was a kid, and that includes the girlfriends I used to have before my life collapsed (boo hoo).

    I ejected because I was a lame ass bitch with inner game issues. Partly legitimate, partly excuses. I was also working on my wealth aspect of my life, because (although I am a student of economics) I am unemployed. I need money, so I founded a business. It is moderately successful, but not enough to support me on its own. I have automated it, enabling me to earn from that business without doing anything. Rinse and repeat, until wealth is no longer an issue in your life. I am working on my second business on a larger scale. Once that is successful and automated. Guess what? That's right rinse and repeat.

    What is the difference between me and you? Why am I going to be a success, while you are going to forever be a loser, if you don't CHANGE your fundamentally self destructive attitude. Well, You firstly need to realise, as in the first line of my post, your negativity perpetuates your suffering. Please watch the film, if you haven't already, "The Secret". A lot of people might say it is superstitious and all that, and while it is true that it is not mathematically precise like, say, the force of gravity, you would be DAMN surprised of the difference if you just take a positive attitude. And I don't mean masking the negativity, with those fucking limiting beliefs still at the back of your mind under a false coating of 'positive' thoughts. I mean TRULY believing that you are WORTHY of whatever you want in this world, and not only that, but that there is ABUNDANCE of everything going around, be it money, girls, whatever. When I look around I am THANKFUL that I can just go out of the house and see beautiful girls. Even if I'm not getting laid for some reason I am thankful that I don't live in a tribe where there was genuine scarcity, and perhaps why 'oneitis' is a legitimate evolutionary trait no longer applicable in modern society. I am thankful for the internet, for globalisation which enables automated business possible, yes indeed, making money via legitimate business, without lifting a finger apart from to transfer the $$ to your bank account. This is abundance, this is possible and more. So while I am not rich, I don't have girls at this moment, maybe I am perpetuating my rut because of complacency rather than fear. I sit and drink pink guava smoothies as if I am already rich. I scratch my ass without a care on my own, as if I already have loads of women so I don't need to go out and take the trouble to talk to any. Tell me who is more likely to be successful. Each of us are losers man, that's the reality, but true positivity, in every aspect, e.g. abundance, gratitude, ideas, innovations, self-affirmations, whatever form the positivity may take, can completely flip the script of your life if you just move on from this negativity weighing you down, and truly believe.

    Next, outer game. Sorted in the three aspects of life Health, Wealth, Relationships. Health problems, go to hospital. That one is the simplest but crucial. Hey if you believe you're depressed (over-negativity is often a symptom), hey go to hospital man. No shame, no apologies. Second, wealth. Read "The Four Hour Work Week" by Tim Ferris. Trust me in this day and age of the internet and mailforwarding companies (god bless em!) this is MORE than possible. What a book. Finally, relationships. Read Magic Bullets or get mystery method from amazon. Really internalize it. It works.
    And that's the recipe to fixing your life, coming from a loser just like you. Hopefully we will both have success together, though I cannot do it for you, we can only tell you how.

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    So you also read the 4h-Workweek. How did you design your website to find out whether your idea works without necessary designing skills and without the help of others, which would demand money for it? I am really curious.

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    ram is right in some points, but just being an asshole about it lol

    System would not be my choice of words. Do you remember the part about AA? I could not try a system consistently because my AA came back. So I started from the opener each time. With a lot of time in between. So having gone past the opener and the set hooked, I did not remember the steps which followed. So more or less I stayed in A1.
    Get over AA, then worry about opening/attraction, and systems.

    Umm...What do you mean? Why exactly three?
    Like AA, state, and your opener for example.

    doubt I could 'master' them because mystery even says that his AA doesn't wane
    Fuck him. TD dont get AA. If not mastery, then at least not having it a high percentage of the time you are infield and can open 90% of the sets you see without AA within 1-3 seconds.

    Only forums and I recorded my voice while doing the sarges. On Sunday I am going to meet an auspicious new wing.
    post the audio for feedback. ask your wing for feedback.

    No.

    What is right learning?
    read mehows products on how to learn game right. also "right way to learn game" by love systems. also sinns game accelerator. i have given you my take on how to improve already.

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    dude, for any business plan, you've got to invest something. true, e commerce does eliminate a lot of the costs (e.g. store premises) but you need some capital to get going. for each business i've made, I invested around 1000 euros in it. why? because I believed it would make me far more than that. somewhere along the line, you've got to get the fuck up and believe you can do it. you need to read the rest of my advice to you, because you're still looking for a quick fix. It's not gonna happen. You need some capital. Cheap work is available from elance. You can have a fully functional, shopping cart, search optimized website made for around $300.
    trafficwala.com for SEO services, ewebguru.com for extremely cheap web hosting: INDIA is the place to be man! To think you can suddenly make a successful business from ZERO capital investment is wrong. But think long term: if you've really tested the market demand for this idea, what is 1000 euros compared to a steady stream of income?

    That capital is extremely valuable, you need to get some, even if it means working in mcdonalds for a while. Who cares what others think, you know you're planning bigger and better things with the money you earn.

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    Honestly Palm if your situation is as bad as you say then I suggest you drop everything you know and take a Bootcamp ASAP. You say you're currently unemployed so it'd be a bad idea to take a bootcamp, but fuck that. If you really want this you'll find a way to come up with income to take a bootcamp. And dont say I dont know what I'm talking about because I use to intern for a pick up company called The Art of Charm and Ive met unemployed guys with very limited resources who still managed to get the money for a bootcamp because they wanted to change their lives. There are many great companies that have great bootcamps just look at the bootcamp review section of this forum. Not only would a bootcamp help your love life, but it'll improve almost every aspect of your life as well, so I say do whatever you can to take the bootcamp that you think is best for you.

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    The OP belongs on the best-of-craigslist.

    Drop everything that you've "learned", stop objectifying all women you meet and just be a fucking person and not some programmed robot spitting out routines. You also clearly have confidence and self-image problems that it maybe wise to seek out a psychiatrist. Sadly I think you're the endgame that 99% of the posters here will end up becoming.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sagacity View Post
    The OP belongs on the best-of-craigslist.

    Drop everything that you've "learned", stop objectifying all women you meet and just be a fucking person and not some programmed robot spitting out routines. You also clearly have confidence and self-image problems that it maybe wise to seek out a psychiatrist. Sadly I think you're the endgame that 99% of the posters here will end up becoming.
    Hmm. You are wrong about me. But you are right about yourself. Think about it.

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    Youre a funny guy. Not in a good way.
    On my phone internet while shes gone to the bathroom.
    Dude. Thats not stagnation, thats the sahara desert billion year drought and the post you quoted is right about you.

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