Hey, it's me, the *new* guy

Hello all,

New to the board. I'm working on getting my life turned around and picking up women is definitely part of the the guy that I am going to become. I read Fader's post on The Victim Mentality and it really resonated with me. Everyone has their baggage and I certainly have mine. It feels like I have more than the next guy but I'm sure that everyone else thinks that they are worse off that others too.

Bottom line is that I'm ready to stop being that victim and make things happen. I'm looking forward to joining in the community to learn and eventually give back after I learn more and get into the position where I can help others as much as I hope I will be helped by this forum.