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- 02-06-2009, 04:47 AM #1
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Hello from middle europe!
I am from middle europe and in my mid twenties
I started getting into PUA about an month ago, but I was thinking of change quite long already...
But lets let me lay out out the whole story (skip it till the last lines if you have no time!)
I was AFC my whole youth. I'm quite good with thinking, I'm not really bad looking, I had quite some friends and went out some times.
But with girls... It just never turned out. I always got LJBF from all of them. Approach and communication anxiety was scaring the shit out of me.
Then I met my former girlfriend. To make a long story short,the logistics made it impossible for her to bust me, although she wanted to several times. I was very long in LJBF-zone, but I managed to "talk her" into relationship, because I was so nice to her and did so many things for her blablabla.
You can already imagine that my several-year-relationship with her was nice, but not coinded by physical attraction(not that I wanted to miss it, it was, until now, the best part of my life and allowed me to develop to what I am today).
A few weeks ago I finally decided to part with her, because we had different views on the future and after all: I want a different life. Right after the split, I remembered reading about PUA and decided to give it a shot. I started to google around, read stuff and found LoveSystems. I read MB and this forum and soaked it all up: it was the most life changing decision I ever made.
Since then everything "just falls into place":
1.) I started searching for a shared flat in my university city, and found one. I added value into these dudes lifes by introducing them to my kick-ass sports-team (they were searching one desperately) and I bring value to my volleyball team because we are short of players. After the second time I brought them with me (yesterday), I got invited to play a match with my team (I wasn't asked that, ever, within 3 years!), I was invited to a kick-ass party with international students co-organized by my new flat mates.
Seems like I have just become a connector for all of them. Feels good.
2.) Having started working on my body language and inner game, I get reponses I almost never got before. Girls, even hot ones, checked me really out, while I just was eating pizza (alone) at my favourite italien restaurant. I can't believe how much of a difference it makes to just stand and sit straight, feel confident and interact that way with the waitress. Similar things happens all time on street and in pulic transport.
3.) I actually enjoy shopping for clothes now, because there are reasons now ("my big change"). Yesterday I bought three new jeans that fit me (the amount I used to buy within two years).
4.) I can't wait to go to the party today. I will feel rock solid in my new clothes. I'll wear contacts (I used to wear them only for sports, but I think of getting permanents).
5.) I started renovating my house, a thing I put off for several years now. This gives me huge confidence boost (and will give me some good DHV-stories, I think... How often did you hear a student say "I have to tell you a nice story that happened while I was renovating my house...blabla" (Maybe I have to work on that a bit so it isn't that apparent )
Currently I will not "sarge", because of the bad logistics (my house is a building lot and I haven't yet moved into the city flat), but I will definitely open sets and talk confident to all kinds of people starting... well... today!.
Until I set up the logistics, I will keep on reading, working on my inner game and practicing the first stages of the EPM.
So this was a quite long "introduction", but I wanted to describe the positive emotional wave I'm riding on. And all of this is just due to the fact that I now can understand, what happens around me socially.
Thank you LoveSystems.
I'm pretty sure, that I will take a boot camp after university, but until then I'll see how far I can get just by self-studies.
- 02-06-2009, 08:55 AM #2
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