AFC in need of help

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    AFC in need of help

    Hey guys

    So here it goes. I'm a newbie/AFC and would really like to become a PUA. However before I can start fresh I have a big problem. Theirs this girl I work with who I spend a lot of time with. We have gone to movies together, dinner, out to bars, where she brought me to meet her family. This girl is so beautiful and I am so in to her, sounding AFCish yet? I have done everything wrong here and I believe thats why I'm in the friend zone with here and I don't think their is a way out of it. I'm usually always the one who calls, texts, emails first. I obviously have feelings for this girl and Im 99.9% sure they are not mutual.
    So over the last few weeks I have become pathetic in my eyes , thinking about her all the time, texting her more often etc. So my question is guys, what do i do? I feel like such a chump right now and I am in need of some good advice or a good kick in the ass...I have never told her how I felt but she makes little comments like, oh your my best friend stuff like that so I kind of know the answer..Anyways thanks for listening guys anyhelp would be greatly appreciated..I'm kind of down from this girl now..



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    Quote Originally Posted by boston george View Post
    Hey guys

    So here it goes. I'm a newbie/AFC and would really like to become a PUA. However before I can start fresh I have a big problem. Theirs this girl I work with who I spend a lot of time with. We have gone to movies together, dinner, out to bars, where she brought me to meet her family. This girl is so beautiful and I am so in to her, sounding AFCish yet? I have done everything wrong here and I believe thats why I'm in the friend zone with here and I don't think their is a way out of it. I'm usually always the one who calls, texts, emails first. I obviously have feelings for this girl and Im 99.9% sure they are not mutual.
    So over the last few weeks I have become pathetic in my eyes , thinking about her all the time, texting her more often etc. So my question is guys, what do i do? I feel like such a chump right now and I am in need of some good advice or a good kick in the ass...I have never told her how I felt but she makes little comments like, oh your my best friend stuff like that so I kind of know the answer..Anyways thanks for listening guys anyhelp would be greatly appreciated..I'm kind of down from this girl now..
    You've got to drastically change the dynamic with this "friend"..at least for now if you want to transition. Try to utilize her to meet other women or just show her you have an interest in other women. It sounds to me that to have any chance of salvaging her romantically you have to change how she views you. Maybe even make her a little jealous in a very very discreet manor. Continue to be super cool with her but get the hell away from over pursuing and being needy. Work to show her you're a man who could be put in the lover category. She already knows she enjoys you're company so if you can open yourself to other women while continuing to work on her you may get the shift you're looking for. If not she's still a friend and a pivot or social proof when you go out. There are a ton of amazing women out there. It's a numbers game so do what you can with this one and turn up the volume on talking to as many women as you can. Don't repeat the "friends zone" mistakes and you're on you're way.

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    friends only

    Quote Originally Posted by boston george View Post
    Hey guys

    So here it goes. I'm a newbie/AFC and would really like to become a PUA. However before I can start fresh I have a big problem. Theirs this girl I work with who I spend a lot of time with. We have gone to movies together, dinner, out to bars, where she brought me to meet her family. This girl is so beautiful and I am so in to her, sounding AFCish yet? I have done everything wrong here and I believe thats why I'm in the friend zone with here and I don't think their is a way out of it. I'm usually always the one who calls, texts, emails first. I obviously have feelings for this girl and Im 99.9% sure they are not mutual.
    So over the last few weeks I have become pathetic in my eyes , thinking about her all the time, texting her more often etc. So my question is guys, what do i do? I feel like such a chump right now and I am in need of some good advice or a good kick in the ass...I have never told her how I felt but she makes little comments like, oh your my best friend stuff like that so I kind of know the answer..Anyways thanks for listening guys anyhelp would be greatly appreciated..I'm kind of down from this girl now..
    onece a friend is very hard to break i have been caught with that one as well if she will not go beyond that keep as friend but move on for a girlfriend

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