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    welcome. i found your post kind of funny....the reason im on here is because of this: whenever I dont really like a girl past her physical attributes, we end up having sex and she wants to be with me.
    whenever i like a girl for who she is, and want a relationship with her, i dont even get to kiss her.

    In other words, whenever I do sincerely like a gal and have attraction past physical traits, she gets bored and looses interest. So i think its funny that so many women get mad about only getting involved with guys that want sex.



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    welcome. i love when girls join the forum...i love women.
    i wish i had a lady friend that understood this stuff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by newstart View Post
    welcome. i found your post kind of funny....the reason im on here is because of this: whenever I dont really like a girl past her physical attributes, we end up having sex and she wants to be with me.
    whenever i like a girl for who she is, and want a relationship with her, i dont even get to kiss her.

    In other words, whenever I do sincerely like a gal and have attraction past physical traits, she gets bored and looses interest. So i think its funny that so many women get mad about only getting involved with guys that want sex.
    The reason why we get mad is, and I can go into a very long and detailed explanation about this, is b/c it seems like most guys have a point a prove about themselves to a woman after they had sex that they are men and can do whatever they want.

    The way that non-relationship sex typically works is that a guy sees a girl, he is very nice and gentlemanly and then acts like a real jackass afterwards. Complete changed in behavior that really confuses a woman. I've had so many guys be sooo nice to me and then after sex, they're just like, alright woman, your needs don't matter anymore, I'll call you next time I'm horney, if you are and I'm more than 5 min away from your place, I don't really care. I mean, yea, chicks are going to have a complex about hooking up. The more guys hit on the girl, the bigger her complex. Whether or not sex happened or how soon or long it took, a girl still deserves respect.

    whenever I dont really like a girl past her physical attributes, we end up having sex and she wants to be with me.
    That's b/c you probably wait too long (dont they say to seal the deal in 5-10 hours or something like that) or send her the wrong message. TOO often guys take the easy way out and try to get a girl into bed by sending her the message that they really enjoy spending time with her and would like to do so in the future. Girls are monogamous creatures by nature and will take the bait. Easy lay for you, but the girl expects something more at the end.

    I've had guys pursue me for one-three weeks before I agreed to have sex with them. They just wanted a ONS. Hells yea, I'm going be annoyed if some dude just wasted two weeks of my life with his phone calls, and text messages and IM's for a ONS. And yes, if you put in all that work, its only natural that I would expect somekind of relationship out of it.

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    you misunderstood what i meant.

    everytime i acted the way your supposed "ideal" guy would I havent gotten the girl.

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    U rule Top Gunn!

    Most of the guys on this forum that have been posting for a long time really seem to like female advice and give you credit where it is due, its pretty cool and not what I expected.

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    I have a thought on your original complaint about player/pua guys...

    The way I see it the naturals and the players are that - you will never get anything good out of them... its 99% just them using you if your hot for your body no matter what they say.

    The PUAs on the other hand MAY be different.

    Some guys are learning this to meet their dream girl.

    Some guys are learning this to make loads of new friends that happen to be girls.

    Some guys are learning this to have lots of sex. To have the sexual power.

    How do you tell which type of PUA your meeting? Well you can't.

    You could (assuming you can tell they are a PUA) tell them you know what they are up to and you don't want to be messed about but they may still lie to you to get sex!

    I have a theory on this though. Normally you can tell a PUA by peacocking of somekind.

    I am not talking big fluffy hats but anything interesting that looks like it has a special meaning or is different.

    For example I have a chain which has the letters E and A on it. It is nothing fancy but its always getting questions (of course I also have silver sneakers but unless you look down you won't notice them! although once you do you won't miss them )

    I figure any guys wearing normal clothes but with interesting stuff going on has probably got something pua going on.

    Also a guy that is approaching girls when his friends are not is also a good clue.

    Generally naturals will have mostly naturals around them so its unlikely your going to see loads of guys talking to each other and not girls when they are out.

    Those are a few clues to spot PUAs who may not be total sex maniacs and be after some nice girls!

    Of course you could just approach groups of guys and say hi and talk to them all one by one and get to see which you like the most based on who they are and then get them alone to talk more.

    That is what we are doing so why can't girls do the same?

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