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- 12-13-2008, 12:00 AM #1
Hey guys TLW here from the UK - new into this stuff just nearing the end of reading the Mystery Method... does anyone recommend any other good books, everyone seems to be pointing towards Magic Bullets.
The Lone Wanderer
Anyway like I said im an aspiring PUA, want to get away from the nice guy loser image - im tall blonde and good looking but as many of you are sure to known n the past have never been the one to seal the deal, losing the HBs to a lesser man (opinion!)...
The name reflects my frustration at the unwillingness at my friends to wing for me, and also at the fact that most of them have settled down at only 23 yrs old...wtf.
My biggest hang-up at the moment is AA, but im sure with the tons of openers on here i can get over that. Looking forward to plenty posts, comments, jokes and advice - see you around the forums.
- 12-13-2008, 04:51 AM #2
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Reading your post is like me looking in a mirror when I first got into this. Had the exact same problems as you're having.
First off, I can tell just from looking at your name that you need to focus on your Inner Game before anything else. The lone wolf mentality is a huge setback for trying to learn pickup since we're trying to become social leaders.
There are some posts around the forum here that are great, but what was absolutely golden for my Inner Game was watching David DeAngelo dvds.
Secondly, try not to spend too much time researching openers and routines to try and combat AA. You can read all the books about surfing in the world, but you're still gonna fall off the board the first few times! I suggest you really try to get an understanding on WHY the PUA material works, as opposed to WHAT works. Learn the psychology behind Pick-Up, and the material writes itself.
Read through every post in the classic writings section, the instructors here are legends for being able to get you to understand WHY things work rather than feeding you material on a platter, and it ends up being a much more valuable way of learning.
Where in the UK are you? If you're in the london area and need a wing, send me a PM
- 12-13-2008, 12:53 PM #3
venture up to Newcastle as its prime location for good sets so will be looking there. I always find with small towns you can approach so many girls on one weekend you'll most likely open the same girls the next...!
Thanks for the offer I'll keep you i mind next time im down there - I travel alot through my job.
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