Love is a Battlefield(Iraq War Vet perspective) haha

Love is a Battlefield(Iraq War Vet perspective) haha

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    Love is a Battlefield(Iraq War Vet perspective) haha

    I'm strapped 4 time and need 2 make another post regarding a time sensitve issue in the online game section, so I will (try to) make this short, sweet and bare bones. The reason I am here is because I am not perfect and I am striving to change that.

    I am a 23 year old white male, 6' 1".

    -I joined the U.S. Army at 18 and spent the year of 2006 in Iraq. I have lived or spent time in nearly every region of the U.S. except the west coast, which is something I will change in the future. I have also spent time in Costa Rica. I currently live in Allentown PA 80 miles west of NYC an 50 miles north of Philly.
    -I am currently living my second life after a beautiful but fucked up experience @ war that has both rocked and shaped my identity for better or worse. I am now bettering myself in college for free thanks 2 the GI Bill.

    Now lets talk about why I'm really here..

    Positives:
    -I have slept with ten women, 6 or so of which would be described as in the hb8 to hb9 range and two hb10s. I have slept with women from Japan, Costa Rica, China, bi-racial, Puerto Rican and una Mexicana.
    -I have have been involved in two LTR's with beautiful women, one of whom I left for my own reasons and one of whom I left because...well we'll get to that in the negatives. So yea, I'm prob not the kind of guy anybody, especially those who know me, would expect to come to this forum and study this material, but it gets deeper....

    Negatives:
    -I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 (crazy right?) and although I always had girls around me in my social circles growing up, I was very aloof.
    -I'm not bad looking, but I never learned to intiate a cold approch, so before I started studying game material, I only got with women because they were a friend of a friend, or because the approched me.
    -Some things happend with my last LTR that I allowed to throw my inner game in2 a pit for many months, untill early fall time-frame, which is what led me to pick up the book by Niel Strauss in June 08. I hadn't the slightest idea as to how attraction functioned, after reading it, I started to study.

    Since I started getting in2 this in July I have been with 4 women, compared to none for a 6 month dryspell due to being heartbroken over my last LTR. But the problem is the bar/club scene. Thank god for this community.

    I would love to attend a bookcamp in the north-east, but the funds to do that are not here @ the moment. If there is a payment plan option, I would almost certainly take it.

    Godspeed everyone.



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    I just can't understand that a man who goes through war and hell, the man who protects this country, seen it all and been all over the world, the man whose life probably hung on a string, the man that went through some high discipline military training, the man who is a veteran

    would have

    any

    self esteem issues?

    Christ dude, your entire life is a DHV.

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    Haha..thanks for the word TrueStory. But the truestory is, a man might have all the backing required 2 take a women on a wonderful A2 through S3 ride and beyond, but if he's stuck @ A1 and got every pretty girl he was every with handed to him, it's all for nothing. I'd rather not have 2 wait for women 2 come my way and instead seize the day, as they say

    I hope to learn from everyone elses experiences and @ the same time share my experiences with everyone 2 help them learn.

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    That's what i mean.

    the A1 problems (approach anxiety and fear of rejection) is rooted in unworthiness and low self esteem.

    you're a worthy guy and you should believe that. Deep inside you should think that women must pray at every chance to be with you.

    If you approach a girl with a frame set that you are a man and you ARE what she wants, you will not worry about it.

    But, if you approach her doubting your abilities as a man and attractive male then she will most likely reject you.

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    Ok now I see where u are going, and u are absolutely right.

    Before looking in2 various books, audio, dvds and posts on this forum, alot of people (me included) had the idea that I was so aloof because of arrogence, when really I was just telling myself that I was 2 good for one girl or the next because I was 2 scared 2 intiate it and possibly *gasp* lose face.

    Kinda sounds like a male version one of those hb's who puts up a "bitch shield" because she is attracted and actually afraid of what a man might do with her once he has her heart.

    Only since I aint a bitch, we'll just call it "armor that weighs down instead of protects" hahaha.

    Thanks for the insight.

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    Well when you say you're too good for something you're arrogant.

    but when you say you're worthy anything you want then you're confident.

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