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    It starts today.

    Hi Everybody!

    I've been a regular visitor to the forums before, but it wasn't until today that I finally decided to post something and get started on changing the way I go about dating. I read the Mystery Method about a year ago, and I thought it made perfect sense. I realized that every time I had been successful with a woman in the past, I had just by chance followed the guidelines laid out in the book. My problem is that I just have a terrible fear of being rejected by women, and it paralyzes me when I'm out in a social situation. So although I now know the steps to attracting women, I still must find a way to get over the fear that holds me back from trying them out. It's really frustrating to me that I can't get past my fear of approaching. I don't want to toot my own horn, but I'm a really good looking guy. I even had a girl who was a model scout give me her card and tell me to call her agency about some modeling jobs. But when I'm out at bars and clubs, I suddenly lose the confidence I have in my appearance and my personality. I know that I have a good sense of humor and an engaging personality, but for some reason that all seems to go away at the worst times. The reason I said it starts today is because I think I finally had something happen that frustrated me enough to finally start me down the path. I was out for a walk just to get out and breath in some fresh air and get a little exercise when a couple of cars drove by and one of them honked its horn a couple of times. All of a sudden I felt that familiar feeling of fear grip my insides, and I started thinking, "Oh God I hope they weren't honking at me. What if it's someone I know?" Not 30 seconds after that thought crept through my head, I suddenly realized that I needed a change. So what if someone saw me out walking? Is that something to be ashamed of? And if it was someone I know honking at me, isn't that just a friendly gesture? I realized that I must reprogram the way I think. I have to stop worrying about what others might think of me because in the end it has no impact on my life. The only opinion of me that matters is my own. At the end of the day, I must only be able to look myself in the eye when I'm looking in the mirror. And so here I am. I wouldn't have posted on here a month ago because I would be worried that someone on here might think that I'm a loser. Oh well. If that's the case then I could care less. It truly does start today. I am going to change some things, and I couldn't be more excited about it. Best of luck to everyone else who is starting out on a similar journey. Let's all go out and have the change our lives because we can have anything we want in this world. We just have to have to have the courage to take the first step.

    Sapphire22



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