Newbie looking for help :)

Hello gentlemen, I'm new to this and have been the traditional nice guy when it comes to ladies. I seem to be successful in all other areas of life except this one. I thought for the longest time that it was the ladies and not me that was the problem but my logic finally kicked and I realized I need some help, actually, I need a lot of help so if you can direct me in the right direction I would appreciate it. Thanks for putting this forum together !