Bigtime AFC looking to change

Bigtime AFC looking to change

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    Bigtime AFC looking to change

    Hello, my name is Kevin and I'm an AFC. I've been described as "a real nice guy", and "a guy any girl would be glad to date", and even "A REAL CATCH!". Well, here's the thing......

    I'm sick of it.

    All of those canned, cliched phrases and my accompanying wussy behaviour have gotten me exactly diddily squat. Not a date with a woman, and for sure not a slice of "poontang pie". Don't get me wrong, I've dated a bit and I've even had a few rounds of good sex but it was not based on any skill with women on my part. It was luck, or possibly that the girls were just as clueless about men as I am with women.

    I am generally pretty comfortable socially except when I am in a few different situations; being around large groups of unfamiliar people, and being around a woman or women whom I feel attraction to and would like to have intense, toe curling sex with. The only way I've been able to meet some of these women is through friends, and even then my natural response is to withdraw inside myself, playing defense as it were. As for a spontaneous approach, I've never been able to do it. I start to get anxious, and my mind empties of anything that can help me. I am also unable to control my body language at this time, and I feel like I am being read like a book.

    I am currently reading "The Game" and also "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. There are some good things in both books, but I need to kick this sticking point in approaching and probably more important, get my inner self under control. What sorts of things can I do to make this happen?

    I hope to one day become worthy of calling myself a PUA.



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    where are you from my man? you seem like you have potential...

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    From the mean streets of Saskatoon, SK in Canada. The land with so much beaver, we had to start putting it on our money.

    Spontaneous 2nd paragraph! This perfectly illustrates another problem of mine. I've been told I'm a pretty funny guy, but a great deal of my sense of humor revolves around sex and crude humor. I've heard from a number of different people that you can't use this type of humor with women, at least until well after you know them. I've tried to use safer humor with them in the past, but I tend to either slip some crudeness in somewhere hoping she doesn't take it the wrong way or else there's an awkward silence while I laugh like Beavis and Butthead inside my head. Either way has not worked out for me in the past.

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    well man, truth be told... there's nothing wrong with sexual humor to a degree. But crude? that's vague. I think the thing you need to remember is to esculate. Contact... with meaning.

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    Good advice, but I don't want to get ahead of myself. I have problems just approaching and talking to a girl, much less what to do when I'm talking to her.

    Maybe I need a wing, someone to push me a little bit because the AA I get is pretty paralyzing sometimes.

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