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- 09-11-2008, 11:31 AM #1
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Hello everyone, I feel a little awkward joining a forum like this.
Not sure if I can do this
I just moved to a new city and to be honest, I am not happy with how I feel around attractive women. I left behind a beautiful girlfriend of two years to pursue my dreams of being a business owner in the snowsports industry. I am finding I have no clue how to approach a woman, and I usually get a strange shot of adrenaline the moment I attempt to interact with them. It usually results in me starting to sweat, feeling very awkard and uncomfortable which soon makes them feel the same.
Now keep in mind, I rarely even approach a woman. Its usually when I am angry or hyper from coffee or something and I have that "I dont give a $%&# attitude". I am nearing completion of Neil Strauss' "The Game", and I just recieved a copy of The Mystery Method which I will start tonight or tomorrow. I honestly am not sure if I am the kind of guy to use routines and the like, but seeing the success in the book of guys like Extramask makes me wonder if there is side of me that I dont know about.
I have had some friends who get girls like its nothing and it seems like every weekend. When they tell me, "I am gonna get you a girl this weekend", all I find that happens is I am not filled with excitement, but rather fear! It really makes me feel like half a man and though I am not really interested in another relationship right now, I just really would like to be able to connect with a woman, on any level. So this is me formally introducing myself, and I hope to learn a lot about women, and more importantly, myself. Any suggestions appreciated and also if anyone can relate to me. Thanks, Hun-B
- 09-11-2008, 11:43 AM #2
There are countless other members on this forum who share the same symptoms and concerns as you. I have contributed to many other forums, but this one is by far the most helpful and resourceful. You came to the right place.
You took the first step! You bought "The Game" and "The Mystery Method". These are excellent for building a foundation and understanding a little bit of the theory behind approaching and dating women. As you gain experience and are introduced to other mPUA's, you will see that routines are unnecessary. You will be able to approach any woman situationally and be yourself.
My only advice is to read everything by the big names like Style, Mystery, David DeAngelo, but to also follow the golden rule: For every hour you read, spend three in field! You will only learn by practice.
You are about to transform your life.
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