Complete Newbie In Need Of Help

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    Complete Newbie In Need Of Help

    Hi guys my alias is slick although I know it says d3mon. I just like slick better...lol Anyway I'm a complete novice to sarging im 25 years old from london and still find it hard to make conversation. Im in the middle of reading the Game by Styles. I have read many forums, and tips but still find it hard to string a decent sentence together. i.e. I went out last night to a club called Mahiki, a really exclusive venue. Any of you guys happen to be in london, check it out nice place

    Anyway I see this girl, cute blonde curly hair brazilian really sweet girl (reminded me of shakira) I was introduced through another mate of mine. I tried to make conversation, or was it the other way around. She asked my name I said it, I asked hers and asked where she was from blah blah..Well that was it.

    I like dancing and love music although I tend to either stare at the ceiling or the floor because I feel every time I look at a girl she looks away. As people know brazilians are known to be fantastic dancers. Anyway there was a point where she got up one of the couches and started to dance. I looked at her and tried to entice her to come down and dance but she said no. I looked at her a few times and she looked at me, then she looked away. Guys this girl was very sweet she was always smiling. I did like her a lot!!

    I do believe I might of had a chance in hooking up with her ..well at least having a chance to build more of a rapport but I messed it up, because I'm really bad at making conversation.

    Anyway as the night went on towards the end she finally hooked up with someone else As I left I said goodbye nice to meet you, and shook her hand. It was funny because she seemed to hold it a bit tight.

    That was it guys my night last night.

    I was just wondering where I went wrong and tips because IM A COMPLETE NEWBIE IN NEED OF HELP!!

    thanks guys



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    Did you do anything at all to DHV? You were comfort building without building attraction first.

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    The average AFC will run through the the typical question gauntlet:

    1)So what's your name?
    2)Where are you from?
    3)What do you do?

    HORRIBLE!!!

    You can easily make the same small talk seem more interesting as well as develop conversation threads by taking those boring questions and using them as cold reads.

    1)You look like a Jessica... I knew this girl named Jessica back when XXX. She was so much fun (Insert details and characteristics you would like to impose on the target.) You remind me of her. You don't look exactly like her or anything but you have that same kind of charisma or energy about you. (Feel free to add a story about Jessica that DHV for you)
    2)Use his one more so if they have a distinct accent. I love girls from XXX. (Totally misreading her accent. Like if she is from England say, "I love girls from Texas. Have you ever been in a rodeo")
    3)You seem like a nurse/lawyer/teacher. (have a funny reason you suggested the profession you chose. Lawyer; Oh you have greedy eyes, said with a smile)

    You will most likely be wrong about your guess but she will correct you. In the end you are getting the same answers as before in a more interesting way. If you are right about your guess she will wonder how you were so intuitive. Still have funny reasons or interesting DHV stories to attach to your guesses. Think of any questions you might normally ask someone and turn them into these kind of cold reads and you will be off to an excellent start as far as making small talk. In this it is important to DHV, Frame the target, and KINO.

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