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    I'm beginning now

    Hello, let me introduce myself. I am 22 years old. I live in Sweden. I've had 4 girlfriends and had sex with only 6 girls total. This lack of sex is not by choice, and I feel very frustrated. Last time I had sex was over one year ago.

    I first saw a commercial for the book "The Game" early 2007. I bought the book and was fascinated... so I bought "The Mystery Method" which I thought was great. At that time I had never EVER aproached a girl I didn't know when I was at a club or pub etc. I have always been a social person, however I have never been good with women other than as friends, and I believe that my body language and appearance make me seem like a real "nice guy" even though I am not.

    Anyways, after reading the Mystery Method last year, I tried approaching and opening sets when I was out. It worked, I could get into a conversation and they would maybe even laugh and get involved but after a few minute the conversation just died and I left the set. This was the pattern for all sets I tried, even though it wasn't too many. For some reason I never continued my PUA excersises, and nothing has been happening since then. I have still not had sex or made out with a girl since January 2007 and I am seriously going crazt about this. I also hate the fact that I am at the mercy of women and that I have to be thankful if a decent girl shows interest in me, and wants to have sex with me. I don't want this - I want to control the situation as far is possible.

    So now I've started reading Mystery Method again, and I've watched videoclips of mysterys seminars. I watched "The Pickup Artist" and I've been lurking the internet for advice, good openers and dhv routines. I've also bought new clothes that I feel express my personality more. I've kind of always been this "nice jeans and a nice shirt" guy who does not look bad... but I look like everybody else, and this style does not convey my personality at all and worst of all, it does not have a sexual tone to it.

    I have therefore bought new clothes that I feel are more me. it's nothing extreme, but still it is out of the boundaries for how many people dress... now I have a more agressive and sexual look that suits well for going out on clubs etc.

    I will soon begin going out to do PUA and I will ofcourse post how it goes here. I just hope it goes well, but I've learned never to be optimistic. I get really nervous around good looking girls. Wish me luck!



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    Glad to hear you are taking action to improve yourslef. Good work, man!

    The biggest key I have found is find guys to go out with and practice, practice, practice. Get a small notebook (like 3x5"), and write down like two words about each set in between, and start a journal thread (mine is here: http://www.theattractionforums.com/f...arging+journal).

    I have been going out for months but only recently started doing this, but it has helped me improve much quicker and let me keep track of my progress so I don't get frustrated. Good luck, man.
    Follow your inhibitions, as they will show you where you need to grow.

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