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    New Guy Saying Hi

    Just thought I would introduce myself as I hope to be a regular here. I was bought Neil Strauss' 'The Game' for a secret Santa and read it and loved it. I had never even heard of a pickup artist before but the idea thrilled me so here I am to learn as much as I can.

    I bought Magic Bullets as an early Christmas present for myself and am slowly digesting that. In the meantime are there any good YouTube videos about basic game worth watching???




    More information about me. I'm currently a 2nd year student at Oxford University (UK). I went to an all boys school so had pretty much no experience with girls and went to University a virgin. That was a year and a bit ago, I've now had sex with 5 girls and had one girlfriend so I think I've not done that badly tbh. I think my main problem is still approach anxiety I can speak to average girls fine, but I definitely clam up a bit when speaking to hot girls. Something I'm going to try and work on.

    I look forwards to speaking to more of you guys



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    Welcome. Just think of hot girls as an average girl with a prettier mask. We are all human. In the beginning, don't focus on outcome. Just have fun making a normal conversation.

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    Hi and welcome.

    Well, you got magic bullet, so you'll kind of be ahead of others. I was lucky in a sense, that a guy bought the book but did sod all, and he went for holiday and...well, he never came back cause his visa rant out.

    So I bought laptop off him and the book was on it and I read it. KABAM. I was hooked. I'm going to buy a copy of my own as well because when I read it, and still do, it is one of most valuable books I've ever read so far after Mystery's book.

    What helped me big time, is the years BEFORE with reading books about confidence, napoleon hill, about the way our subconscious mind works. I use to everyday, used a MIRROR TECHNIQUE. It's where I looked in mirror, and staring right into my eyes, spoke what I want, as though it has already happened.

    I did this everyday, and I use to carry a card with what I said and say it to myself in my mind. I had those words all over my home too.

    Now don't get me wrong....I didn't just stand and did just that.

    I did action. Lots of it in sales and it was one that helped me greatly because while majority of guys in the company was bitching about how their prospects said this, and that, and this....I didn't. Instead, I saw what the potential customer was saying is a message in which they were not yet...COMFORTABLE. That the product wasn't attractive to them........yet. That they didn't BELIEVE in the sales person not the product only.

    That's why I made more sales than majority of guys in the company but company got bought out and every gone.

    I share this because that's what it's like with women.

    Also, this background, this history of hundreds and hundreds of books by Napoleon Hill, Andrew Carnegie, Psychology books, marketing, sales books gave me this mindset that when I read Magic Bullet....it was like....everything I did prepared me for this book.

    I think, if I didn't have what I went through, plus books etc, I'd have so much garbage in my mind and think it's all about the look when I know today, looks plays a small part in success in anything especially women. I'd not be ready in frame of mind to embrace wholeheartedly what Magic Bullet teaches but thankfully, I was ready.

    So, don't put women on a pedestal. Don't be nice to impress them.

    They get a lot of that from "nice guys". Don't be their friend, because they ALREADY got a lot of those. They have many nice guys for that, plus lots of other women, so you ain't going to do much different or stand out.

    Just do.

    Let nothing in your head stop you to doing.

    95% can be taught but it is the 5% you need to make sense of the 95%, which can only be CAUGHT in the field, in doing.

    Enjoy the ride.

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