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    hi all

    Hi
    Im new to the forum and need some guidance.
    I have issues with porn.I'm not content with my life right now.My school , having no job etc.I'm extremely lazy but ironically I'm going to the gym religiously.I always keep myself at home during the day.I can't stop watching porn etc.I started self developement 1 year ago and my situation was even worse.I had social anxiety ,alcohol and drug abuse.So I decided to get serious about dating.Im currently watching david de angelo's dvds.He really helps me to extend my vision.After finishing these what do you guys recommend?I have inner game issues obviously.I have no problem talking to women ,flirting etc.But when I talk to them they instantly get that I'm confused and lack a life vision.You see staying at home watching porn all day really blocks your vision.So I need some self-help recommendations.I have no financial problem but not earning the money myself obviously.Living with the family at age 23.
    Ok don't think that I'm pessimistic about my life.I embrace all these challenges and I know they will make me stronger.Thanks.



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    Welcome to the forums.

    As for your life, it's really only you who can find out what you want to do with it. It's a good beginning that you're aware of the importance of a strong identity when meeting women. You can easily meet women even if you have no idea what to do with your life, but you need to reframe it into something positive. Instead of being the guy who lacks a life vision, become the guy who is looking for his life vision. There is a subtle but crucial difference.

    You describe that you have a history of substance abuse and apparently you're now having a porn-addiction. You need to address that, maybe with the help from a professional. If you got help when fighting your alcohol and drug abuse, contact these people, or your physician, and ask for help again because apparently something is still laying dormant.

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    Actually I never got any professional help in my life.Always trying to solve things silently by myself.My situation with alcohol and drugs was not that severe.It was like heavy drinking and drugs several days a week.That crippled my daily life with the hangovers and stuff.Couldn't go to school etc.I was going out all night but I was so drunk all the time that I couldn't even talk to the girls.I didn't even remember what I was saying.Staying awake with the drugs and drinking more etc.You see not like an alcoholic but it was bad for my life.Ok I handled that pretty well.Not doing that for 6 months now,not a single nightout.I want to get better at day game I think and have a decent girlfriend that can help me make my life better.But now I got so used to stay at home because of the hangovers ,I can't do anything until it gets dark.Going out in the morning is very hard for me right now.I have no willpower left to create new habits.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Learningmachine View Post
    Hi
    Im new to the forum and need some guidance.
    I have issues with porn.I'm not content with my life right now.My school , having no job etc.I'm extremely lazy but ironically I'm going to the gym religiously.I always keep myself at home during the day.I can't stop watching porn etc.I started self developement 1 year ago and my situation was even worse.I had social anxiety ,alcohol and drug abuse.So I decided to get serious about dating.Im currently watching david de angelo's dvds.He really helps me to extend my vision.After finishing these what do you guys recommend?I have inner game issues obviously.I have no problem talking to women ,flirting etc.But when I talk to them they instantly get that I'm confused and lack a life vision.You see staying at home watching porn all day really blocks your vision.So I need some self-help recommendations.I have no financial problem but not earning the money myself obviously.Living with the family at age 23.
    Ok don't think that I'm pessimistic about my life.I embrace all these challenges and I know they will make me stronger.Thanks.

    01) Why are you not content with your life?
    02) What steps besdies posting here are you actively taking ot change it
    03) Why are you not lazy with the gym?
    04) What do you mean you can't. You mean you won't. You can't jump off a 90 story building, you can't last for 30 days without water. You WON"T stop watching porn. Let's get clarity on language.
    05) What kind of drugs?
    06) I suggest you study Tony Robbins stuff
    07) What do you mean you get confused?
    08) Why arey ou pessmestic

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