My introduction. Need help. Lonely!

My introduction. Need help. Lonely!

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    My introduction. Need help. Lonely!

    Hello everyone! So I just graduated college (I am 24 y/o) and moved back home with my parents (lame ), but it is what it is. I have always been an introverted individual, but my biggest issue is my "inner game". My self confidence is pretty much nil. I always seem to think that people are judging me or making fun of me, which really fudges everything up.

    I've been told that I am a very good looking guy (by many people), but I struggle to see it. I think this stems from my childhood (I had severe depression and was diagnosed with OCD as a child in middle school). Middle school is when everyone starts to form "cliques" and such. Because of my conditions, I was pretty much exiled all throughout middle school. I went to school through high school with these kids, so it never got any better. I remember a girl I like calling me a "freak", which really hurt things even more.

    College got a little better, but still more of the same. Because of grade school, I had a lot of social anxiety. In college, I was always the quiet one. I even tried greek life, but it didn't help. I've never had a girlfriend, or been in any kind of relationship. Right now, I sit on the couch, watch TV, and drink beer . I don't know ANYONE here anymore and I don't even know where to start. Where do I meet people? Where do I meet girls? Especially during the day?

    Going to a bar/club solo seems weird to me, especially with my social anxiety. I mean, I can talk to people, but its usual "I can't talk to an attractive female, or a group of them". I think the problem is that I can introduce myself, but after that, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO TALK ABOUT. I am always afraid I will blank and then I will look weird. I am a very sociable person. I just need to know people before I can do that.


    I hope I can get some useful help here. I'm tired of being lonely. I will be in this area for at least another 1.5 years, as I am taking some additional classes and studying for the MCAT so I can apply to medical school.

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    You've come to the right place, study inner game like there is nothing else.. I suggest you start from the bottom, approach random people on the street. Ask what time it is, where you can find X place, if you pay for something ask how their day is going.. doesn't matter if it is a man or a woman.

    A lot of people have been where you are, there is a way out but it requires hard work.

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    Welcome to the forums. My starting point was about the same as yours, except I was 10 years older, but today, less than one year after having taken my training with LS, my social circles are extensive and I'm having problems fending off girls, because I don't want a girlfriend at this point, rather than having problems meeting girls. That's what you call a quality problem.

    Approach learning game the right way by taking a lot of action, with game and ligestyle, journaling your progress, seeking out knowledge and getting feedback from guys with more experience than you and you'll see amazing changes.

    Hope to see some field reports from you soon.

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    Suave,

    I'm new to this site just like you are, but first things first. The couch, TV, and beer all need to GO! What's your employment situation? What you need to do first before you start taking care of the women, is to take care of yourself. I don't know where you're from, but there are gyms all over New Jersey that cost $10 a month, so no excuses. Hell, go for a run, it's free. Start reading books. Books about every subject you are interested in. Working your muscles in the gym is important, but working you mind is essential. Reading about different topics allow you to talk about different topics. This will help you in the long run. Substitute the beer for water. Give up beer for two weeks and you will gain a clearer mind.

    You will not meet women sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself. I just started this whole PUA thing, but right now I can think of several different places I can meet women...gym, yoga class, school, public library, bookstore, mall. Look for things to do outside of your house. You're entire transformation starts now. You can either get back to the couch and eat your potato chips and watch family guy, or you can start to become the best version of yourself. The choice is yours.

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