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    Back in the game - mid 30s guy finally hoping to get good!

    Howdy guys,

    I found Fast Seduction back in 2002 when I was early 20s. I made all the classic AFC mistakes and so despite being a good looking guy, had way less success than I should have had.

    Anyway, by sheer virtue of approaching - natural game not canned - I'd always end up with a girlfriend which severely curtailed my PUA development. This always happened just as I felt a change - no more approach anxiety, more comfortable in conversation, better body language etc and clearly wasn't a coincidence. As a result, my development stopped and not only did I not develop my skills to even a "competent" level, I didn't get to make the changes in me permanent and so each time a relationship ended I was back to AFC with the crappy body language etc.

    And now here I am, fresh from a 7 year relationship and back to AFC. Only this time I'm older and balder Poo!!! The landscape has changed and I don't recognise the gurus. In my day it was Tyler, Mystery, Gunwitch, DeAngelo, Juggler and Woodhaven & Dmitri. Hopefully though I can get back into the swing and finally get a good enough run so that I not only get good but become unconsciously competent and with skills for life because it's not only about snaring hot chicks but about being the best version of me I can be and becoming a true alpha man.



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    Welcome back

    Your notion about canned game has not really even been a thing for a long time. Hell, even the first Routines Manual, which could be considered the bible of canned material, clearly stated already back then that the material was not meant to be memorized. Canned material is meant as training wheels and inspiration, and for that it's very helpful.

    Ps: I'm bald too. Don't cry a single damn tear about it. I have three words for you: Shave it off! You'll never have to worry about a bad hair day and the few girls that would never date a bald man is vastly outnumbered by the hordes of girls who really dig it. Many girls have never tried touching a well-shaven bald head but they usually love it when they do and it's very easy to amp up the escalation and sexualisation when they are thinking about your dome between their legs (Because that's what they are thinking. I've asked them)

    Good luck on your second round of learning game.

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    Ice9, I can totally relate....Im mid 30's too. Short version; was raised strictly Catholic and was forbidden to have a GF or talk to girls until i graduate HS. Thankfully my parents divorced when I was a freshman and that went out the window, however the damage was already done and I never learned how to talk to or relate to girls. Much like you said, due to sheer virtue and being naturally good looking, I've always done okay with the ladies. But Ive mostly met through work, social circles etc. Then I read an article that referenced 'The Game' by Neil Strauss...what a life changer. Suddenly things just clicked and I started to realize how I could use my natural personality to talk to girls. Though Ill admit, this just helped me become more rooted in dating within my social circle and not needing to approach. Ive never liked canned game, so its good to know everything is veering away from that, Im naturally just a cocky/funny guy. Since then Ive moved around a lot and lost my social circle, so now i need to learn what i never felt i had to before.....approaching. Which still freaks me out as i was pretty much conditioned by my religious father that talking to girls is bad. So here I am. Guess Ill cut and paste this into my own intro thread too....

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