Overcoming Fear

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    Overcoming Fear

    Hi guys, I am a 24 year-old from New York facing some rather unique problems picking up ladies. (and a few of the usual ones as well I am sure)

    5 years ago I recieved a severe head injury. It was so bad I had to learn how to talk again, how to walk. In high school and my first year of college I was very socially and sexually active, and an excellent athlete. But the aftermath of the accident left me atrophied and unable to touch even my close friends and family without suffering extreme PTSD symptoms.

    But the human body and mind is pretty fucking awesome so I am headed for a recovery. My game upon first meeting people and over text is fantastic if I can say so myself. (I do) But i'm terrified of escalating anything sexually, or even to making out. I haven't kissed a girl this decade.

    So I have alot to work on. I figured it would be good to have a digest for my endeavors and get some good advice so here I am.



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    Fear to escalate is most of the time fear of rejection, so read/watch some inner game and escalating of course. It's easy to say to just do it, and not having regrets after, but that doesn't usually work for people, although it's true!

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    I recommend RSD for inner game improvement. From the sounds of it you are a natural, You already have an advantage and any insecurities you have should not be a big issue for you. Girls usually like guys for personality and energy. Look Up RSDTyler on youtube. Here's something to get you started: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4VUFhBKQa8

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    That's pretty inspirational dude, way to take charge of your own life!

    I mean if you're already so good at initial interactions and text game, chances are the girls you go out with will be willing to escalate (if you text sexually at some point at least). Inject the sex into conversations whenever you get the chance, and they just go for it!

    You've done it before the accident, you sure as hell can do it again after! Like you said the human body and mind is a pretty fucking awesome combo.

    Good luck man

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