Becoming my true self

I used to believe in most or all of societies sayings about romance and dating. It didn't prove useful since I was mostly put in the friend zone or didn't know how to act towards girls who were attracted to me, Looking to the present, I kind of still have that problem. But, I was recommended by love system's products to succeed easily. I have entered into the world of pick up back in 2012. Approached and dating many girls with lots of success, success ending in kiss closes. Although I have gotten my 2 f closes. I have got two really attracted virgins liking me, although I couldn't seduce them to lose their virginity. This is my sticking point and I still NEED your help!