I didn't realize it until recently, but I was made for this!

I didn't realize it until recently, but I was made for this!

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    I didn't realize it until recently, but I was made for this!

    Hey everybody. I'm a twenty eight year old male living in Madison, Wisconsin. I knew about game years ago but never got into it, instead thinking I would improve myself in other ways and avoid the hardest improvements to make, mainly making myself more comfortable putting myself out there. For years I've been weight training, losing weight, teaching myself new skills in music, overcoming a fear of singing, etc. I recently left a LTR of 7 years, (married for 1.5,) due to the fact that I felt I was new out of my wife's league. Back when I met her, I had low self esteem and figured I'd never be able to do better. She has a great mind and a nice face, but she's obese, has always been, and will always be. We have a one year old son. As I was doing all of this self improvement, in the back of my head, I knew it was for when I'd be ready to strike out again...

    I work in telecommunications. My job is cushy now, all calls from internal staff, technicians repairing lines outside etc., but for over a year, I was Repair: the front lines of customer service. Taking calls from over a hundred pissed off customers every day. When I first started here, I thought I'd never make it past training, but I did. I learned to get good at turning people's moods around, sounding charming on the phone, striking up conversations with complete strangers, and selling them shit they didn't really need to boot.

    I'm pretty intelligent. Seems most of you are, honestly, so that doesn't make me special here, but it counts in the game. I'm fit. I have nice pecs, arms, and genetically, I got lucky in the legs department. I do need to work on my back though. I'm handsome. I've been told I'm devastatingly handsome by a woman I slept with before, and I wasn't looking for that compliment at all. I'm shy, but I can be social if I put effort in to it. And when I put in effort...I can do some amazing shit. I just need to get over the anxiety, learn what to say, what to do, and I'm confident I'll be able to KILL IT out there.

    My hobbies are involved with music and technology. I'm an inventor, business owner, songwriter and traveling musician. When I get asked what I do, I can legitimately and honestly say I'm a touring musician (looking for ways to capitalize on this interesting tidbit in conversation and elsewhere!) I also do some visual art, painting, screen printing and such.

    I did it all to seek approval, love, admiration. Yes, I love music. Writing a good melody sends chills down my spine, but the real reason I do it is to meet people and earn respect among my peers.


    Whats on my to-do list:
    -I'm currently reading The Game, then I'll be moving over to Magic Bullets.
    -Sometime soon I need to "run into" a girl I met last weekend Saturday. I know where she works, and where she hangs out.



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    is any of your music uploaded to youtube? can you send us a link so we can all bask in the glow of your art?

    Other than that, sorry for your girlfriend because I know that women are much more emotional than men and her reasons for not losing weight may be that she wants to push others away from her.
    I had an interesting theory just now (right now) which is that, maybe when women get married they get fat because they don't want any other man to threaten the love and commitment that they hold with you, because women's emotions are sometimes easily persuaded if a man's got enough game. So maybe they figure "if I get fat, the man that'd cause me to cheat won't want to talk to me!" But the double edged sword is that her husband's not attracted to her because it almost seems like she's given up and doesn't care about his level of attraction..... relationships are hard!

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    Hey, I'm an aspiring musician, nice to know you have a love for music as well! I have been a bit off of music for some time... It seems it had lost some of its excitement, but now it's better. Has it ever happened to you?
    Also, I would like to hear your music if you have anything on the internet as well!

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    Sounds cool. I can relate in many ways. Congratulations on finding the community

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